Is it normal for a straight teen boy to have gay thoughts?

Question

Im straight and im having gay thoughts

I dont want to be gay though

Answer 1

I think you should go thru with your gay thoughts you never know you may enjoy it alot!@

Answer 2

15 is a confusing age anyway. I am gay, and I knew at a very young age I was gay. I had sex with boys, and girls. "Sex" isn't necessairly the defining factor of your sexuality. At 15 you can get "hard" or horny for almost anything most the time. That's normal. However, most people will tend to say if you have attraction to males you probably always will. I would think you are gay and just reacting to hormones for all sex at this point. Most guys will tell you an erection doesn't mean what you're seeing is all that important, it's hormones. I wouldn't completely decide your sexuality if you are confused, explore things out there, see what makes you feel "whole". If or when you go out with a guy or girl, which one makes you feel better, comfortable, or at ease with yourself? If you can kiss, hug, and long for another male, you're likely gay. If you just like to have sex with guys, or thats a fantasy, you likey are just a very sexual person and are probably str8. Remember again, whomever you feel "emotionally" connected to defines who you are. Not sexually. A lot of str8 men have sex or sexual feelings to men, that doesn't make them gay. Simply curious or very hormonal. However a str8 man isn't likely to be emotionally attached to another man. So use that as a guide, and be whatever you were made to me. God made us all, loves us all, and there is no councel or prayer to change how he made you. Just be happy, and be you. The bible is a great collection of stories written centuries ago, re-written thousands of times, and missing hundreds of books that some women even wrote. There are a lot of mysteries and theories on certain quotes and why they were altered or written. I wouldn't take anything word for word from something like that. Be you, Be spiritual, and be happy being you. "No matter whether you're black, white, str8 or gay, don't let anyone, ever, step in your way". Good luck, :)

Answer 3

It is perfectly for a straight teen boy to have gay thoughts, just as it is perfectly for a gay teen to have straight thoughts.

Peer pressure prevent many boys from sharing their thoughts. Insecurity about sexuality also troubles teens.

Just relax, if you are gay you will know, If you are not gay you also will know. As you experience life you will find out what is naturaly for you, regardless of what others think.

Answer 4

Some straight guys go through a "Gay Phase". It's perfectly normal. Of course there's a chance you won't grow out of it, but them's the breaks.

Answer 5

It is normal however not all teen boys will experience these feelings. It is also quite normal to experiment with other TEEN boys and still grow up to be a hetero man. Try not to classify these feelings or urges as "being" one way or another and do what you are comfortable with.

Answer 6

Do not worry about it. You are still maturing and your hormones are running rampant through your body and sometimes you will get mixed signals. It is completely normal and in a few years you will be through it and not have gay thoughts

Answer 7

YOU may be really into guys and chicks too. You may be searching for your sexual identity. Or that's a sexual fantasy. There's nothing wrong with having fantasies. But you should ask yourself if you would ever do a guy cause if you get in a relationship your partner deserves to know what your deal is and what team you play for.

Answer 8

Yes it is normal. At one time everyone had thoughts like that. And then they simply went away. Your just being curious.

Answer 9

Perfectly normal. You are just figuring stuff out, and it's normal to get turned on by all kinds of things. Don't stress about it!!

Answer 10

With the hormone levels running at their peak in your life, many thoughts will cross your mind..