And doesn't have free time. I feel like I should just stop trying to contact him and see if he comes back.
2006-06-27 13:03:42 · 19 answers · asked by yadirajosie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you talk to him? You flip him the bird and remember you have better things to do with your time because you're more important than that.
2006-06-27 13:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by shainalorenne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right idea.
Guys dont like talking on the phone.... so I wouldnt worry too much about that part, but if he isnt making free time to spend with you then his priorities are a mess right now.... put him in check by backing off in a very subtle fashion...if he likes you he will make the effort to contact you.
2006-06-27 20:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by geet840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is genuinely busy or distracted by something else right now...give him some time and back off a little. Let him know you're still there if he needs and wants you!
That said, if he isn't going through anything and is just blowing you off, you need to find that out too. Its only fair that he tells you if he genuinely isn't interested anymore. You don't say whether you two are serious, "in love", how long you've been dating, etc...so it is hard to know what to say. I only speak from personal experience; sometimes my man needs space to deal with other things, and I am trying to learn to give it to him instead of adding to his stress! But, I am very serious about him and we love each other. So you have to decide what is right for you two, I guess.
2006-06-27 20:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by cooperslassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah totally try that. He might not even like you if he wont talk on the phone and is hard to see in person. Just sit back and find out if he even likes you. Oh, and while you hanging, dont think about him at all, just have fun.
2006-06-27 20:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is write him a letter. It sounds corny, but think about it - nobody gets personal letters in the mail these days, just bills. He will appreciate the effort and feel special that you took the time to write to him & tell him how u feel. If he doesn't respond, then it's time to move on. Good luck!
2006-06-27 20:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by catsup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what I would do. Some men just do not like talking on the phone.
2006-06-27 20:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure he would be happy if you will stop seems its over and you dont want to let go if a man wants out of a relationship why a woman wants to hold on to someone thats want out leave the man along you are only making your self look bad
2006-06-27 20:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should dump him. He may be sweet, cute, kind ect. But if you can't talk to him, see him, or anything, then it's not really a relationship. If you break up you guys can still be friends if you ever see or talk to him.
2006-06-27 20:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Christine L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying to contact him and if he really won't talk to you put a note in his locker telling him you really need to talk then tell him to meet you at lunch that way he definitely has no excuse
2006-06-27 20:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by jayjay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should. And in the process, make sure you have it known to him that you are not looking for a part time boyfriend!
Good luck! :)
2006-06-27 20:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋