im in summer school, and i like this one guy in all my classes, im not surew what to do, if i ask him out, he might laugh in my face and say no, or worse...I COULD LOSE HIM AS A FRIEND!i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-27 12:53:56 · 27 answers · asked by *~coconut~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First does he like you the same way too. Or just someone to do.. Don't ask him let him ask you..
2006-06-27 12:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by James H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The longer you wait, the better the odds are that some other girl will beat you to it.
Odds are he won't laugh in your face, but he could say no, but he could also say yes. Only one way to find out.
You won't lose him as a friend by just asking him out, unless you start acting different if he says no.
Just start talking to him when he is alone, and say, hey, i know this is sort of out of the blue, but i was wondering if you'd like to go out with me. Maybe go see a movie or something.
Good luck.
2006-06-27 19:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would not laugh in your face or he's not a good friend. i would wait a bit longer though. i once did this with a guy from school i had a crush on, and was DEnied! a little embarassing and he told ppl, and now that i look back i wish i hadn't have asked him because i realized he wasn't even worth the risk of finding out anyway. so decide whether he'll be worth it or not. if he's not your top 100% quality type guy.. and be honest with yourself i don't care how badly you want him... then don't do it.
2006-06-27 19:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not wait at all .if he is groovy .other girls may think the same as you and ask mhim out and make him fall in love with them ,before you do
.
so this is what you can you loose
so what if he laughs ,than you know straight away that he is a jerk instead of later and you need not waste any more time mooning about him.
and people do not loose real friends because they ask him out .
on the contrary
so the bestway on all counts is to take a deep breath and ask him
,right away
2006-06-27 20:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i have the same thing going on but i asked and he said no but we r still friends but we never get to hang out over the summer. But all i can tell u is listen to ur heart and if he says no then hes an *** hole anyway .
2006-06-27 19:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by dixie gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One life to live I always say. If you like him go right ahead a tell him how you feel about him. You might be surprise yourself. He might even tell you that he too is intrested.
I think you should ask him out to get to know eaxh other some more. If this works out, set up another date etc. Who knows it may turn in to one of your best relationship yet.
2006-06-27 20:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wailing for long periods of time can cause throat problems and cause you to lose your voice all together. Usually you would just ask him out. All that noise might scare him away
2006-06-27 19:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by aspecialfred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Do not ask men out. Let them ask you out. Regardless of what women's magazines say, males still like to do the chasing, so only after you have gone out a few times do you invite him somewhere. Just be friendly and nice; as usual.
2006-06-27 19:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by hopflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should never wait to ask out somebody that u like cuz then some body else meant have already asked him out.And u know u wouldn't be happy about it at all.
2006-06-27 19:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if he would like to go get something cold to drink or go to a movie or something.. you will never know if you do not ask him.. i see no reason why you should lose him as your friend .. if you do he was not a very good friend in the first place...so enjoy and hope all goes well..
2006-06-27 20:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋