Don't missunderstand, he does'nt beat me or anything like that. He get's angry so easily at the stupidist littlest things and everything else. When he get's mad he just starts yelling and acting as if the whole world is against him. I hate it. Every time he does that i just want to scream or lock myself in a room or anything just to get away from his yelling.
2006-06-27 12:22:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should just ignor him don't drop what your doing and isolate yourself. Ignor him. If you can't concentrate just leave without saying a word. If you listen it will bother you and make you want to yell back. If you yell back he will be even more upset and that may lead to and awful fight. Just tune him out. I know my dad was a mean old man and blamed everything on me even though I was his little princess. I tune him out and go about my business.
2006-06-27 12:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mela L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad is the same way! I used to be so sensitive and cry every time he would yell at me for the stupidest crap! Now I just laugh and it doesn't affect me anymore. It took a few years, but I learned from my older sister. Let him blow off some steam and when he's done suggest some anger management classes.
2006-06-27 12:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by latina1519 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to set yourself away from the madness. Act like it doesn't bother you by going for a thirty-minute to an hour walk. maybe you should just scream out and tell him what the problem is....or you can just talk to him when he's calm and work it out. . .hope it works
2006-06-27 12:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip some gingko in his coffee... Sorry I couldn't come up with anything serious, that's probably just how he is. My dad can be the same way sometimes. Tune him out and go somewhere without him for a while.
2006-06-27 12:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by nick c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that his temper is desturbing and if he can't control it, he will end up a lonly old man because no one likes to be around mean people.
2006-06-27 12:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Adventures of Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, are you serious? Same thing happens with me...and I dont know how 2 deal either. Maybe you should try to talk to him.
2006-06-27 12:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your father just has a lot of built up anger and stress, in order to talk to him he need to release the anger in a physical activity such as exercise, weight lifting etc...
2006-06-27 12:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just scream out and tell him what the problem is....or you can just talk to him when he's calm and work it out
hope it works
2006-06-27 12:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by PhizZingFree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him..you love him first but then he is bringing you down when he gets upset. he should be understanding of his own daughter.....i'm sorry but i think that is really sad...
2006-06-27 12:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by sparkly_winks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT HAVE TO DEAL. HE NEEDS HELP, TALK TO YOUR MOTHER OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBER. YOU SAID HE DOSENT GET VIOLENT SO YOULL PROB. BE ABLE TO TALK TO HIM. GOOD LUCK
2006-06-27 12:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by eight beers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋