2006-06-27 12:11:04 · 12 answers · asked by Laney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I struggle with it and want to accept it but it bothers me that the man I am with chooses to look at other women naked. It's like saying - you are not enough to look at so I need more. .
2006-06-27 12:20:02 · update #1
Yes because in my EX marriage, it led to other things. It went to porn chat rooms and eventually to meeting up with the women he met online. It destroys relationships.
And to your added comment, DON'T accept it. Why should you? It's like compromising your standards for the sake of him. If you are uncomfortable with it then stand your ground. I personally think any decent man with a strong spiritual belief and is committed to his partner would look for a more healthy and moral outlet. It's disrespectful.
I tried to accept it too and look what it ended up doing.
2006-06-27 12:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by WiserAngel 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes. As much as I've tried to accept the fact that most men do, it still bugs the crap out of me.. he should be giving that attention to me.
2006-06-27 12:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because it makes me feel that i'm not good enough that he needs other females to turn him on. i blevie that when u are with someone they should be the only one that u desire to see naked. my husbands understands and will not look at it.
2006-06-27 12:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all he is doing is looking at porn, then no it doesn't bother me. i would probably watch it with him. if he were looking at something like child porn then that would bother me a lot.
if he were looking for another woman then i would kick his a$$.
2006-06-27 12:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Knocked Up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-06-27 12:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by sprogcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, what all men watch porn, whether they admit it or not. I rather have my boyfriend let me know what he likes, than have him lie to me. I wouldn’t mind.
2006-06-27 12:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not psyched about it, but if I'm not around I'd rather he turn to that then to another woman!!!
2006-06-27 12:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Pepperton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really cause i read romance novels and really they are like porno with some of the plott lines and well he's not out screwing any one...
2006-06-27 12:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i dont want my bf watching other chicks do it. its for me just as bad as cheating.
2006-06-27 12:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by heyyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
i like porn
2006-06-27 12:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by Pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋