If the girl your going out with is still married to someone else, but is working on getting a divorce, and you tell her how much you love her, is that real? You don't have sex with her, though you do talk about it. You kiss her and compliment her. You discuss marrying her and having lots of babies. Could that be real?
Would you even consider doing that to a married woman? It is just so you can have wild sex with her someday?
2006-06-27 11:56:32 · 5 answers · asked by davidswiphey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on how the married women feels if shes getting a divorce then theres no problem with goin out with a married women its her decision and if he says he loves her then thats probably how he feels with her it could be real but you gotta take it day by day
2006-06-27 12:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As always that would depend on the guy. Overall, BECAREFUL! He could be out for one thing. I mean I would wait and let her get through her divorce before I would get involved (unless she wanted a relationship with me). I would not push her to go out with me or anything physical. If he truly digs the woman then he will not only be there for support but allow her space she might need. I mean, dag, she might be vulnerable (depending on how her divorce is going ya know?) There are good guys out there but still are some morons. Make us look bad.
2006-06-27 19:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very bad form to show romantic inclination towards any married woman, regardless of an impending divorce. Any man who truly loves a married woman would show his love by letting go of his desires and helping her fix the marriage. Encouraging someone to go through the pain and trauma of a divorce isn't a sign of love--it's a sign of abject selfishness.
Besides, jumping from one man to another is just begging for trouble.
2006-06-27 19:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be real...i would advise you take your time on this one, slow down. a lot of guys like to say what they think you want to hear. if you have been talking about the things he is offering then that may be your weak point for him to soften you up. proceed with caution, don't have sex with him and see how much talking he will do...
2006-06-27 19:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope springs eternal, and when sex is in the offing, more than hope springs up.
He could be telling the truth, but he may just be a horny dawg.
That's up to you to decide, you, assuming it's you, know him lots better than we ever will.
2006-06-27 19:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋