The guy's name is Daniel, he a bit cute but i don't really like him i already have a hot, cool, and cute BF. But my best friend goes to the same class as him and says that he will soon ask me out (he told her that) and maybe even more!. What should i do?
2006-06-27 11:35:51 · 49 answers · asked by Life's Web 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has to be one of the most stupid questions I've read in days.
So a guy wants to ask me out and I already have a boyfriend...Umm what do I say to him if he ask me out?
Wow. That's a tough one!
2006-06-27 11:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 20:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that although initial disappointment sounds cruel - it actually is kindest to be honest about you already having a bf and so you are not available.
Be honest without being unnecessarily unkind will help him more in the longer run and you will know that you have been truthful too and perhaps he will even grow to respect you for it
2006-06-27 11:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Aslan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're already taken, you have your best line of defense. You can truthfully tell him that you're in a relationship and happy, and might add that you're flattered or thanks for thinking of you, or whatever. You don't really need any other reason for denying him if you're taken. If he gets upset, you can always say "Would you ever trust me if I dumped my BF to go out with you? I know I wouldn't trust someone like that." Don't worry about it... you've got all you need to deter him.
2006-06-27 11:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by dark_storm73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't really like him and already have a boyfriend, tell him you already have a BF, and you're sorry.
Be nice, and keep future options open, but no point in leading him on if yo are happy with things as they are.
2006-06-27 11:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by C_Bar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You graciously decline. "Thank you for asking, Daniel, but I'm only seeing this one special guy right now." It's unnecessary and would be cruel besides to mention that you "don't really like him". If he keeps liking you even after you decline his invitation, well so be it. There's nothing wrong with a girl having admirers.
2006-06-27 11:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks you out, you have a good excuse. your already seeing some1! but untill then make sure he sees you and your bf alot to avoid having to tell him that. make sure to not be really mean though. if you want to be friends, tell him. but only if you really want to. and have you acctually seen HIM give you clues that he likes you? cause sometimes friends will say that just because their bored and they need some drama once and awhile. my friend did that once. not saying that ur friend is a liar though. she is most likely telling the truth. but dont talk to him about it unless he acctually asks you out. just in case he really doesnt like you. that would save you some embarrassment...
2006-06-27 11:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Marissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't wait for him to ask you out...Confront him with it and nip it in the bud before it goes to far and tell him how you really feel...If that fails tell your current boyfriend what the problem is and if he really is a good man to you he will take care of this problem for you.
2006-06-27 11:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by newyorkcitypimp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont really know him just tell him you hardlyknow him and that u already bot a bf but youll like to be his friend
2006-06-27 11:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by Gem 21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you already have a hot, cool and cute bf.
2006-06-27 11:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋