Need to know how to get a guy!
thanks!
2006-06-27 11:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by xobeachxbum30xo 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
It depends on what Kinda guy you want...If you want a guy to treat you like **** and Walk all over you then dress like a slut and be really really stupid...If you want a good guy who will treat you good then Educate yourself and be classy. The best girls are the ones who aren't whores....Decent guys hate girls like that...so just be cool and down to earth and you will be fine.
2006-06-27 11:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
A SENSE OF HUMOR!
--I can't hang with a gal who's too serious
--Pretty face, nice body. But attractiveness also comes from something inside...like, just being female, yourself. Hard to nail what that 'magnetic' quality is about, where it comes from. Wish I could tell you where to pick it up in a bottle...we could all use some more, I think. Also, luckily, we all (many of us?) have different ideas about 'pretty' and 'nice body'. Someone will find you beautiful, just the way you are.
-- Imperfections OK! Sometimes it's the little bent smile, crossed eye, chipped tooth, facial scar...*(endless list) that actually *add* to a woman's attractiveness. Is it the vulnerability that is also adorable? I'm still learning too.
--Personality. OK, maybe you have no sense of humor. Do you at least have a positive outlook on life? Or are we still blaming our parents/government for everything? Can we have a nice conversation on anything over popcorn sometimes? Right?
--Don't come to me for *all* your money needs...some is OK, a lot is OK, just not _all_. Can we both bring something into this relationship?
--Guys like a level-headed girl. You know, guys are all logic and girls are all feeling, guys are cold, girls warm. It's nice if you can find a girl a bit logical--not all feeling. Just like a girl might like a guy with some feeling...not all logic. We guys think girls are often too emotional...nice if we find one more rational. Nice to argue/discuss some things without an emotional fireball outcome. <--That's just one practical application.
--Nice if your girl is hot and sexy for you, but never even wink at other guy. Least don't let me see or know about it.
--Don't turn into my boss/mother after we're steady/married.
--Don't get fat unless I do too.
--Don't make shopping/collecting things your first priority in life. A guy who loves and understands women also understands this need to shop. But our kids' needs should have a higher priority, for example.
--Do take an interest in my hobbies/music/stupid pastimes. (Then maybe I will listen to you when you need nurturing too)
--Don't think that kicking a man in the balls is funny unless you think getting kicked in the breasts is also funny.
--Do tell me how you feel....don't kill me with silent treatment. I can't fix it if you won't tell me what's wrong.
--Do call me from your girls only parties and tell me your lonely in the middle of all the fun.
--Don't call the police and say I hit you if I didn't.
--Don't tell the boss I sexually harassed you if I didn't.
--If you want out that bad, tell me how much money you want and maybe we can negotiate something. Play fair and shoot straight with me! Many men are capable of ending relationships on happy terms. The good guys need a chance.
--I also like a girl who's attracted to the deeper things in life...like finding God. But that's just me. Pretty sure that won't be 'most' guys...
That's about it...
2006-06-27 19:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by gene_frequency 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny is key but lets not fool ourselves. Looks is tied for number 1. You don't need looks for a great relationship, but a guy will always check that first. Everything after that is bonus.
2006-06-27 18:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by The Sea Captain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know that I look for a girl who can make me laugh. And someone who I can trust once I get to know her. And of course, if she's a little flirtatious that's always nice too!
If you want a decent guy, just be yourself, and don't be afraid to initiate conversations...
2006-06-27 18:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by captainluigi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you like to find in a guy? Look in the mirror, and like what looks back, smile, and treat everyone with respect. Not just those that you believe society would accept. Respect, and care for yourself, and you will find a guy that loves that in you, and you will love what you find in return.
2006-06-27 18:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by rann_martin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obedience
and the ability to take to training
2006-06-27 18:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality an looks
2006-06-27 18:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by armeen_etemad1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personnaly, i dont really care about looks. if i can talk to you and we can laugh together and just have a good time, thats all that matters to me.
2006-06-27 18:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by LOOPYLUNG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clean, funny, not stuck up, and nice smiles.
2006-06-27 18:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by tazzz6413 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for her to be honest, not too slutty (but also put out), physical attraction, intelligence....
2006-06-27 18:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by D. V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋