2006-06-27 11:31:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIRST: You wrote, "....really enjoys having sex from the anus..."
Not, "....really enjoys having sex from MY anus..."
Are you the receiver? I think we're all ASSUMING that you are, but it helps to be crystal clear.
SECOND: You wrote, "...i don't really enjoy it..." Again, assuming you're the receiver, does "...don't really enjoy it..." mean it's uncomfortable or painfull? OR, does "...don't really enjoy it..." mean he's considerate of you but you just don't get into it?
If it's uncomfortable or painful, then STOP. He must respect you, PERIOD.
If it's something he does right or well but you just don't get into it, tell him that, but offer an alternative. Say that when you do something else to him it really gets YOU going. I would hope that he derives pleasure from pleasing you. That should be every bit as important as his own satisfaction. If not, you may want to reassess your relationship. Sex SHOULD be a joy, a celebration, something exciting and fun; not a chore or something that one participant simply endures.
When all is said and done, it's YOUR body. Respect yourself, insist that he respect you.
2006-06-27 12:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do have this thing about having aual sex. Most do not understand that it is not for all women and that some dotn get anything from it. Try explaining to him that you are not the type of women who gets enjoyment from it and you could also try telling him that you would like to show him just how it feels and then maybe he wont want it any more.
2006-06-27 11:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's something you don't enjoy then you have to decide if you want to compromise THAT FAR for someone you love. My personal opinion is no, don't. Would he do the same kind of compromising for you? Anal sex has a lot of risks involved that can be detrimental, so unless you enjoy it, I would nix it. It COULD possibly lead to sexual aversion if it continues.
2006-06-27 11:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by dark_storm73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really since when it's ok for a boyfriend and girlfriend to have sex so wide open like that. who came up with this idea. and even more he wants to have anal sex!?
completely taking God words as a joke. and whoever is taking God as a joke will regret.
my answer is never give a guy what he wants until he knows how much valuable ur body is. once a guy get what he wants it's over. don't give ur body to anyone except to ur husband.
2006-06-27 11:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strap on a dildo and have sex with his anus- see how he likes it.
If you are going to continue with him doing this to you, make sure you and him are well lubed before he starts - use something like KY jelly.
2006-06-27 11:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what feels right for you. Since it's not something that you enjoy, stop doing it. If your boyfriend cares for you, he will respect your wishes.
2006-06-27 11:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try pleasing yourself once in a while. He should be grateful you'll have any kind of sex with him, let alone something you dont like.
2006-06-27 11:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by shocktrooper342003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with
tyates101:
that is because before you he was gay - sorry
I never heard of someone love having anal sex all the time
2006-06-27 11:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Oh So Classy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him touch you on your front part while he's inside the back.
At least you can enjoy yourself too while pleasing him.
2006-06-27 11:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what all women do and make him pay for it, have him buy you some jewelry or take you out to dinner, etc. Then give him the key to the back door...
2006-06-27 11:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋