If you are in a sexual relationship and you are like happy but you're not at the sametime should you stay with him or breakup?
2006-06-27 11:21:30 · 10 answers · asked by MUNCHiES 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't advise getting into a relationship like that in the first place. But if you're in it, you have to look at these factors: #1) whatever's making you "not happy," might not be worth the "happy" of a sexual relationship. #2) who are you staying in the relationship for? If your answer isn't "myself" then it's not worth it, because if you continue on with it, and you're not happy then it's doing you more harm than good in the long run. And #3) a breakup on your part might be the most empowering thing you could do. And that's not to say that you need to do it, but looking that relationship in the face and seeing it for what it is, it'll help reveal to you whether or not that's all the relationship is about. Because you really can't and shouldn't build a relationship on just that. But YOU are the one who's going to have to make that decision, so whatever you decide, I wish you the most happiness.
2006-06-27 11:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by let_it_be_known1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your happy just because of the sex then no you shouldnt stay together. You need to sit down and talk with your partner and tell them your not as happy as you should be. If you dont have an emotional relationship then theres nothing. Sex shouldnt be EVERYTHING in a relationship.
2006-06-27 18:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are only happen with the sex part and not the other parts of the relationship. Either you two talk things out and stop making the relationship based upon sex, or break up.
2006-06-27 18:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a whole lot of information, so I guess it comes down to what is making you unhappy in the relationship? If it's something small that can be corrected, then work on it, but if it's something big that you feel is just not fixable, then I think you would be leaning more towards leaving. Try and give us a tad more to work with please. :)
2006-06-27 18:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are like happy, but not at the same time and it's only sexual then like, that will all it will ever be. Sexual. and I doubt you'll ever be like happy, since it sounds like you want more.
2006-06-27 18:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by nici a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if u got da feeling ur not happy then most likely ur not happy with dat person and u should break up and find sumone u feel happy with at all times
2006-06-27 18:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl,well i think all you need to know sex is not every thing...i think what you a re telling is that after sex you feel like he is not there.. and feel empty..that is how it works.. try to build a relationship..with him if he is the kinda guy you want to keep...if not.. i think we both know what you need to go.. leave...
2006-06-27 18:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you should leave. If you are not 100% in a relationship then you shouldn't be unless you want to make it work.
2006-06-27 18:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by mercadian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what's making you happy and what's making you unhappy. If what's making you unhappy is your partner and there's nothing that can change it, break it off. If it's you, you need to either fix it, or break it off. Unfortunately, questions like this have no black or white answer. email me if you need more help.
2006-06-27 18:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by taintedsweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's sexual without real comittment you'll never really be happy. get married or get out.
2006-06-27 18:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by jami p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋