I discovered and admired this pretty girl on a website and we exchanged addresses. we have been communicating( emails, telephone, pictures) for 5months. I'll be honouring an invitation in her location so will obviously love to see her. Is it advicable then to play love with her on the day of our first encounter? I got just that day to be with her. There is mutual love feelings flowing judging from our discussions. What do you think?
2006-06-27 11:08:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time. Your first meeting is NOT an advicable time to want to have sex. Show her how much you respect her and her body by abstaining. You are young and have plenty of time to get to the point of "sex" with her. Besides, why risk pregnancy, STD's, or hurt feelings after. Respect yourself enough also to say NO. No contraception is full proof!!!!
2006-06-27 11:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by lucky1mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE take my advice. NO!
I've been the girl on the end of this situation. If you seem eager to have sex with her, it will seem a lot like that's all you wanted her for. Charm her, and if she makes the first move, only then consider moving forward. But if I were you, and if you want to make this more than a wham, bam, thank you ma'am, and you want a friendship to ensue, I'd save it for the right time.
2006-06-27 11:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by taintedsweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. give it some time... just like any othe relationship. Nooky is fine, but leave the gold medal for another night.. you guys will be happier with that decision later because you have not had the chance to be physically intimate before.
2006-06-27 11:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by manderstwin1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. It is NOT advisable. Totally aside from the possibility of getting her pregnant, there is also the potential for STDs. Besides, do you want her thinking that you're just after her booty?
2006-06-27 11:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ! you can catch or give some one some kind of STD's. You dont know if this person's been sleeping with someone or everyone.Just b/c you email each other dosent mean you really know that person.
2006-06-27 11:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question that jumps to my mind is: would I want a meaningful relationship with someone who would have sex with me under such circumstances? I would say no way! How about you?
2006-06-27 11:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out, see how it feels. do not overdo it and just be urself. if she wants physical stuff she'll show it to u. do not jump into doing anything unless u r absolutely sure that she wants the same thing.
2006-06-27 11:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it. You don't want to be viewed as just a friend by this girl, because then you will never be able to.
2006-06-27 11:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you get into a relationship with the girl before you start doing any "playing love"
2006-06-27 11:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO!!! Take it slow! Not only is it dangerous, it would be more respectful of her to see how you get along in person before y'all screw your brains out.
2006-06-27 11:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by angelgolightly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋