LADIES WHAT SHOULD I DO IF MY MAN JUST TOLD ME HE HAS CHEATED AND NOW WANTS ME TO FORGIVE AND FORGET?
2006-06-27 11:08:33 · 18 answers · asked by elleroshelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are your feelings for him? why did he do it? There are many different situations. If you both love each other you can work it out. If it happens again then you should definately leave him.
Good Luck
2006-06-27 11:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by bugs bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you this girl...Once a cheater always a cheater. if he has cheated once he WILL do it again, especially if you forgive him, then he will think all he has to do is tell you the truth and you will forgive and forget each time. No way, let him go and find yourself someone better. Guys that cheat do not deserve a second chance.
2006-06-27 18:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by grrrrme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to that question lies in the way you feel. In my opinion, trust is very important in a relationship. If you think that one day you'll be able to trust him again, then maybe you can continue. If you don't think you'll be able to trust him again, kick him to thye curb. It's happened to me and I was able to forgive but not able to forget...it ended up not working out.
The main thing is do what you're heart tells you. don't be swayed by begging or promises of future fidelity. Make sure that you are comfortable with your descision, whatever it might be.
2006-06-27 18:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart but it not going to be easy cause you forgive him you are going to be suspicious the rest of your life it wont be the same as it did b4 u found out the forgetting part wont happen cause in your conscience u will be scared that he is going to do it again most men do lot of them cannot walk a way from temptations maybe it might be best to dump him easier said then done so follow your heart
2006-06-27 18:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you'll just forget. I know, I've been through this. I took him back, and he did it again. There is no truer statement than "Once a cheater, always a cheater." Be smart, move on. Let him cheat on someone else. Save yourself the heartache!!!!!!
2006-06-27 18:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance. but explain to him that you will be able to forgive in time but you cant forget something like that.
2006-06-27 18:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him but let him know that he needs work hard to restore your trust in him. If he does it again, you can forgive but I would still leave him because that would just show that he doesn't respect you.
2006-06-27 18:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by Friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard enough for a guy to admit that he had cheated on you. That means that he really cares for you and regrets what has happened. Relationships are not easy. Do what your heart tells you. You guys need to talk.
2006-06-27 18:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u want to forgive him? do u still love him? if no don't forgive him.
2006-06-27 18:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can forgive...but u can never forget!
2006-06-27 18:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋