im in love and i just broke it off with my girlfriend on friday she hasnt called or anything i seen her in the club on sunday for pride weekend and she didnt say anything to me so i didnt either, i wanted her to want me to stay , but she didnt protray that she wanted me to stay, we broke up cuz she told me she was having doubts , so i told her i want you to be happy if im not making you happy then i want you to be happy she let me leave and didnt try to call meto talk i need advice ,she means the world to me,if she cared dont you think she would show it and call me and tell me something
2006-06-27 11:01:54 · 10 answers · asked by MS.SUGA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she acting like she don't care don't waste your time on it. she is probably trying to hurt you and giving her the upper hand. just take somtime she'll come around don't sweat her cause thats what she wants you to do. take care of you.
2006-06-27 11:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by laylayjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but if you told her that you wanted her to be happy and she hasn't called maybe it's because you don't make her happy. I know it's hard losing someone you love, trust me I know, but sometimes it really just isn't "meant to be" and there isn't anything we can do about that. If you really feel that you two not being together is a mistake then you call her and talk over to confirm whether or not she wants you to stay or go. Then you can either work things out in your relationship or just let it go.
2006-06-27 18:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by KVC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. Some people are under the mistaken belief that "putting up a fight" shows real love. Quite the opposite. When we truly love someone we want them to be all they can be regardless if that includes us or not. Only you know what type of person she really is. However, if she doesn't call or respond to you, then give her space. She will contact you when (and if) she's ready.
2006-06-27 18:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of been the better person and said hi to show her that u r ok with the break up and tell her u hope she's happy that would of gotten her to thinking about u again or if that didn't work talk to her and tell her u didn't want to go. Play grown up now.
2006-06-27 18:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by ms.lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u break up with her to see what she would do? sometimes u shouldn't play with relationships like that because u or the other could get hurt emotionally. maybe she needs time to think things out. u have the wrong attitude about her wanting u back. don't assume she will come running back to u because it don't work like that.
2006-06-27 18:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by hotgurl 04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible your more into the relationship than her?I know its
hard to understand.Maybe she's just taking a time out untill
you figure out what you want.I'm sure she is not totally over
you just give it a little time.
2006-06-27 18:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by ksgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! and I thought straight guys and girls had it rough!!
No sweetie, if she's the one with "doubts" let here have them. I'm a firm believer that their is someone for everyone. You just take your time and look around.
2006-06-27 18:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always give her another call, ask her if it's over...blunt, but quick way 2 find out...
2006-06-27 18:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she would
2006-06-27 18:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she would....but i can't help you I am ENTIRELY STRAIGHT....i aint no ******* gay *** lesbian chica.....
2006-06-27 18:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋