2006-06-27 10:31:31 · 14 answers · asked by watchman_of_the_south 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The key to performing good oral sex on a female is to talk to your partner, check it out with her, what feels good, what she likes and does not enjoy, listen to her breathing patterns and body responses.
Be aware that many females really believe that their genitals are ugly, that they are dirty and that they don't smell very good. They may need reassurance that their genitals are beautiful, unique and a real turn on for you. Sex will be more pleasurable if she is relaxed.
Contrary to popular opinion, the vagina is not where the action is. Anatomically, the clitoris is analogous to a penis, but the clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as a penis.
Start slowly, "sensate focus" - hugging, kissing, stroking, petting, fondling, fingering, all great for sexual arousal. Very gently, spread the labia, touch the clitoris very gently. You can feel it become erect and lubrication will be noticeable. You can also stroke around the vaginal opening and very gently penetrate the vagina with your fingers, making sure that this is pleasurable for her.
For oral contact, licking, sucking, kissing and gently blowing on the clitoris is pleasurable. Just remember, be very gentle. Do not blow into the vagina.
At the same time you may wish to stroke around the vaginal opening, mimicking thrusting of the penis. You may wish to use a vibrator or dildo around the vagina or anal area. Talk to your partner.
Many females will reach orgasm with oral genital sexual contact. To be most effective, check with her so you know what really is pleasurable and satisfying.
VENUS BUTTERFLY is a move which I first heard of in an old 1970's soap opera. It is oral sex on her clitoris, manual stimulation inside her vagina and, with the remaining hand, stimulation around her rectum, even penetrating the rectum if that is pleasurable for her. Make sure you use lubrication. This puts a whole new meaning to "getting your act together."
2006-06-27 10:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 23:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Can anyone describe to me how to preform great oral sex on a women?
2015-08-07 23:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lonny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get stds even if you did know their past. Some people don't even know they are infected with anything, don't show signs, but can still pass it on. The best thing is to find one girl you really like and be monogamous. As exciting as lots of different girls may be, you are taking a risk every time. Just imagine that when you have oral sex with a girl, you are having sexual contact with everyone else they ever had sex with too.
2016-03-17 23:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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the same thing you can get from having regular sex. the same body fluids will still enter you- just via the mouth instead of the penis they make dental dams so you can still preform oral sex and not be exposed to anything
2016-04-08 08:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-23 00:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trouble is, different women like different things, and an individial woman usuaually likes different things at different times, depeending on her mood and how turned on she is. I'd suggest asking her for suggestions while you're doing it, and also experimenting while watching her reactions closely.
2006-06-27 10:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I can. For one you must stay down until she reaches her climax you cannot leave her all hot and bothered and don't finish. You must go from the clitoris to the hole and all in between. Put your tongue in her hole.
2006-06-27 10:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do what you want to do - ask her what she wants you to do, and keep doing it until she says stop or pushes you back.
2006-06-27 10:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by sybianladyrider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's good
2016-08-08 02:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋