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We has sex and the condom broke. I knew it did but I didn't say anything. She is two weeks late. Is she pregnant? Can I get welfare at 16????

2006-06-27 10:30:22 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I have no intentions on working

2006-06-27 10:30:51 · update #1

32 answers

1st of all you should of told her about the condom but any who, just watch if she is getting bigger, throwing up, and who knows she might tell you but you could tell her about the condom and ask her to take a test to C if she is pregnant. if you do ask you might seem like a caring person

2006-06-27 10:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Addicted to Love♥ 4 · 2 0

If shes pregnant, you're gonna have to work. And you should have said something IMMEDIATELY when you noticed the condom had broken. Then maybe your girlfriend could have taken the morning after pill, and you wouldn't be in this situation. How would you like it if it were the other way around and men got pregnant? How would you have liked your girlfriend breaking the condom and not telling you about it? You want to get on welfare because you have no intention of working? You make me sick... its such bullsh** that the rest of us who work our @$$es off have to pay for your mistakes..... STOP IT! Get a JOB!!!! The government is making it harder and harder for people to get welfare, because there are actually people out there who have children so they don't have to work. It sounds insane, but it's true. People like you are ruining welfare for those people who TRULY do need the help... like mothers who are suddenly left single when their husbands run off, leaving them with no job skills and no money. In the meantime, until your 18 your parents are going to have to clean up your mess if your girlfriend really is pregnant...what are they going to think? And when things go sour between you and your girlfriend, she will come after you for child support.. be prepared to pay that for the next 18 years.

2006-06-27 10:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Purplelicious 2 · 0 0

You know teenagers like you should Shot at Dawn, and Boiled in Oil, Killed and Your lifeless body left for the Rats...Take responsibly for your actions...If you do not and she is with child I hope she sues for child support...You make a bad name for responsible adults....Next time you have sex use two condoms fool...I bet both of you were never tested for HIV/AIDS...Not saying that you are dirty...Get a check up...Now to answer you question take $30.00 and go to the drug store and buy an EPT Test for her...It will tell you if she is pregnant...As far as welfare goes that is why the system is so messed up because fools like you want to just sit on there asses and collect cash and do nothing for it...Well it's not call Welfare any more It's called Workfare....They make you work for a welfare check these days in 2006...The only way to get money without working of your check is SSI...And if you went to apply they would laugh you out of the office...Now take that to the bank.....

2006-06-27 10:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by newyorkcitypimp1 3 · 0 0

First you will need to work and she definetly might be pregnent there are choices out there cause you do have a life ahead of you i had a child a few months before i turned 18 you need to think before you act sometime this could have been prevented after it bust so i sorry but that was not responsible and if you do not intend to take care of a baby by not working then you need to dig up some money for an abortion and do it quick sorry to say the odds are she is and you need to get her a pregnancy test then decide what your going to do. There is life after a baby I am almost finished college one more year to go.

2006-06-27 10:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by hot_mommie00 1 · 0 0

Could be. What other signs is she having? You may want to get an at home pregnancy test or go to crisis pregnancy center or the teen health clinic in your area for a free test. I assume your girlfriend is a minor which means it will be up to her parents what happens but she could go after your parents for child support on the baby which may mean you will have to get a job to pay them back. Children aren't cheap. If she is not pregnant she needs to get a new man. What kind of creep are you. I don't intend to work -give me welfare.

2006-06-27 10:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0 0

You're on your way to be a great deadbeat dad and a drag on society. The smart answer would have been to tell her that the rubber broke...that way she could have taken emergency contraception and stopped the pregancy from even starting.

To more directly answer your question, yeah dude, you knocked her up.

More importantly, get a job. You're going to have to support this baby one way or another, and when you're making minimum wage + 50 cents at Burger King, don't act surprised when 25% of your paycheck is taken out and given to the girl you treated like crap. And there's no chance of you getting on welfare...maybe your baby's momma, but there's no reason for you to be poor...and being a lazy *** doesn't count.

2006-06-27 10:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by hawksocc8 2 · 0 0

Well if she is pregnant then I hope that you take care of your child. She may be able to get welfare. Just because she late doesn't mean she is pregnant. Every time semen gets into a woman body she doesn't become pregnant. I hope you change your mind about working because you don't want your child to grow up and not take care of his or her family and responsibilities.

2006-06-27 10:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes she could be.. You need to tell her to go and get a test to find out for sure. Why didn't you say anything when the condom broke?

2006-06-27 10:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by BabyBoo 2 · 0 0

Why didn't you make your girl drink pills? You knew that the condom broke, why didn't you take your thing out. You don't want to work, your about to have a kid. Your kid is in for a world of hate. Try making responsible choice next time.

What did your parents say about it? Do they know?

2006-06-27 10:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by ladylike 4 · 0 0

Calm down because I'm 16 nd about 2 mounths ago that exact same thing happened to me and my boyfriend and I was late too- but not pregnant. GIrls at our age have really irregular periods. Just wait another two weeks- I'm sure she'll get it

2006-06-27 10:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by la reina 2 · 0 0

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