ok so if none of u know im the girl with the "gay " bf and hand jobs. anyways, i asked him if he was and ofcourse he said no. we got in to a big fight cuz i accidently let it slip that i went on to yahoo answers. so he doesnt trust me anymore. it gets worse, we are unexclusive friends, we made out. now he wants to date other pple. i explained to him how i felt and everything and instead he pushed me away, and was being rude. he said he was in love with me and wanted to marry me, but now he said hes not interested. i guess im just gonna leave him,he wants to be friends with benefits. does anyone have any advice?
he was being rude then, and i was upset at him before and to try to get me to forgive him he said the gift he got me was expensive. it wasnt. he wouldnt admit it but said he would say that just to get me to forgive him. thats so sly.
hes usually not like that. i really care abt him but i guess its not worth all this, especially if not going to get married right?
2006-06-27 10:25:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just to clarify, the handjobs were to his friend which made me think he was gay
2006-06-27 10:32:48 · update #1
If u think that he is gay, what is the point? if he doesn't trust u bcause Ur on yahoo answers then he has issues, and that's just an excuse to get out of marrying u and the relationship, so move on.
2006-06-27 10:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by padra29 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am SO confused. Are you saying that you have a gay boyfriend who wanted to marry you, but has now changed his mind? Why in the world would the two of you want to marry each other? Isn't he gay? and let me get this straight...he gives you hand jobs and you told everyone on Yahoo . Neither one of you should even be CONSIDERING marriage rt. now...not to each other or to to anyone else. Marriage is not one big handjob, you know. It's so much more than sex.
2006-06-27 10:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right, I'm a male, I see where he's coming from, but I also know what he means by friends with benefits, and the truth in that is, he wants a sex toy, or a back up. thats all a benefriend is to most guys, I suggest you get the heck out of dodge if benefriends is the only relationship he's interested in with you, unless you have a weird fetish with being used.
2006-06-27 10:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by kyokun44 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married? Married???
This sounds like an episode of Jerry Springer!
Honey, my advice to you is to read this question you posted, see what kind of drama you are involved in, then run like hell.
This boy is obviously confused, and has no idea what he wants. Do you really want to be a part of all that drama?
2006-06-27 18:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by persnickety1022 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be friends with benefits then you don't need him. You need to find somebody that will be everything that you always wanted. Don't waist your time on him if he doesn't want the same things as you do.
2006-06-27 10:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by BabyBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with James
2006-06-27 10:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.....thought I had some pretty skewered relationships......SHEESH!!!! I think you need to get away from Psycho John before you go insane............
Scooby Snack?
2006-06-27 10:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by zoinks22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont really think that is is worth it then it isnt!
2006-06-27 10:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by lil_bit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just agree with everyone else.............
2006-06-27 10:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so
2006-06-27 10:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋