My ex is confused and won't decide....?

Question

He has the hardest time making decisions. Now the question is with our relationship. We dated for almost 4 years and have been seperated for 2 years. He hasn't seen other people but put up personal ads of himself. I have only seen a few others guys. I never know what's going on cause of his lack of decision making. He'll say he's interested in being with me again cuz we're getting along better, and then we just had a fight last week and now he's considering ending it. So I told him this time I wasn't gonna hang around to be his buddy and friend and keep getting hurt if other women start showing up in the picture.He says I never try it his way. I told him if it was gonna be over and he was gonna be with other people, I'd have to leave and not hang around or talk with him anymore. Now he's not sure what to do, and I'm confused as well. What gives,y would he have a hard time letting go if he is against a relationship at this time? I want things to work out.We r also like best friends

Answer 1

And you want this guy around,why?

It's abviously your choice just accept what you get with the option you seem to be choosing.