2006-06-27 10:11:47 · 30 answers · asked by becky5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Miss Karen ,
Maybe the reason you tow argue so much is cuz you don't c i 2 i. Is it a trust thing? Well look iv been in a relationship where trust was a big thing and even-tho we cared for each other there was no real trust. If you sit with him and just ask whats going on?, try to come up with a solution that both of u agree with. And c if things work out. You can care for someone with all ur heart and it may never be meant to be. DO u still want to be with him?, ur young theirs more to life then a guy who argues with you all the time. And here's another question, do u stay cuz u care for him or cuz ur use to it?, these are things u need to think about. Maybe you should try giving each other real space. C what life is like with out him. U never know. Well Good Luck.
2006-06-28 19:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nicky C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise, its very important in a relationship, most issues depedning on the size can be compromised, If it is literally a constant thing then maybe you should break it off with him, if you tend to be a dominating figure in a relationship then your best off with a guy whos is more relaxed. Theres nothing wrong with being a dominating person, so long as it doesn't turn to being bossy or demanding. Everytime you compromise and issue you will stengthen your bond and relationship, and sooner or later you run out of things to argue about, but if you can't compromise big issues, your just not right for each other. give him a little more time, work on compromising, if it can't be done, then leave, as for him still wanting to be with you, thats your thing, it doesn't matter, it'll never work if you don't wanna be with him. If you wanna be with him when theres no argueing, give compromising a chance, if not, split.
2006-06-27 17:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by kyokun44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. I would look at it and say is this how I want to live everyday at least for the near future. Is there other things that make it worth it? Is it fixable? These are questions only you can answer. I think there must be something that has you staying there this long. Be honest with yourself and decide if it what YOU want.
Of course if he has gotten violent, verbally abusive,or controlling of what you do, what you wear, how you think , or anything else get out NOW.
2006-06-27 17:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've just came out of a relationship where all we did was argue but i still have deep feelings for my X but you can not progress in a relationship if you can't see eye to eye , maybe yall need a break see if there is something better out there.
2006-06-27 17:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by anthony w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bigger question is do you want to be with him? Just because he wants to be with you, even though you argue all the time, doesn't mean that you let him dictate your life. I think you know what you should do. You have the right to find your happiness.
2006-06-27 17:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by ThatLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody argues, that is a normal relationship. i'm not Dr. Phil, but i can say that if you guys are arguing about big issues that can't seem to be fixed or solved in anyway, then it's time to move on.
but it's always better to argue or talk it out before jumping to conclusions.
really.
2006-06-27 17:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dint argue it wouldnt be normal youll NEVER EVER EVER find some1 that you will never argue with arguments in a relationship are normal ONLY if theyre petty things just DONT argue back it just makes things worse EVEN IF HES WRONG just let hime be right and shut up eventually he'll stop aruments cuz he knows you wont deal with them Men have this thing that even when there worng there right and they know when theyre wrong they just want to be told there right Men are children so you have to treat them like one just let them get there way when it comes to petty arguments
2006-06-27 17:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by C I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you argue doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He was probably brought up in a family that argued and feels he has to do that.
2006-06-27 17:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear,I am in the same situation!
I don't know as well,but until clear what I want I am still with him,but I don't feel well about this situation!!!
I think I will have to leave him because he has no right to make my life impossible!
2006-06-27 17:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by faunpas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he argues all the time and you dont like it then I think you should dump him because thats not my idea of a happy relashionship.
2006-06-27 17:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋