need help please
2006-06-27 10:06:47 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find one that does
2006-06-27 10:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG this is like watching in my own mirror two years ago....
I had a bf he didn't wanted to have sex cause he was afraid of make me pregnant. Of course I didn't wanted a kid. He rejected me all he can
At the beginning when he started this behavior, I was wearing the most sexy cloths.... and seduce him in many ways....and well we have it, *never pleased me*
About 2 months before I dumped him, he really decide to have anything, and doesn't matter what I did... even walk naked next him, he didn't pay any attention to me. I know sex is not that important, but when you're with someone that reject you every time, you feel so bad! and then you some other guys would like to have a gf that do all the things you do or were so so you know LOL...
Conclusion: if he is not paying any attention to you, You don't have to be with a person like that, you need someone that can take care of you in ANYWAY! and believe me, sometimes is better to be alone, cause the worst feeling that a woman can have is feel rejection... I was single for two years... is true that at the beginning you feel a little bit alone, but then you go out and have friends and meet new people... is awesome!
2006-06-27 10:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Papayita :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends, how old are you? If you're underage then he may be waiting because he doesn't want to have sex while he's young. Let's say you're of legal age and you have your head on straight. Is he waiting until you're more committed to each other? Are you rushing the relationship? Does he want to know more about you before you have sex? Do you need to know more about him? Has he shown you that he's attracted to you other than needing sex? Do you think his libido is a little low (a doctor's visit and prescribed medicine may help if he has a low sex drive).
Have you talked to him? If it's a low sex drive then he may need help but is embarassed to talk about it. What other reason has he given you? You didn't give us much to work on. So, ask him and get some good answer before you make a decision. If you've been dating for a long time and still no sex then I would seriously rethink your relationship. But if you're still new to this relationship, then give it a little more time.
2006-06-27 10:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has had sex before there may be a few reasons. 1) He does not feel passionately about you. 2) He may be hiding something from you (ex. another girl or STD) 3) He is trying to respect you and may feel that if he has sex with you he will be defiling you. Some guys are like this, they may have had sex a million times, but once they fall in love they don't want to have sex with the person they love because the don't want to disrespect them. It is more meaningful to them. On the other hand, if he is a virgin then maybe it is just a moral coviction, and if this is so do not question it. This is very personal, and you should not push him to change his mind. He may live to regret it, not necessarily because he doesn't love you, but because he did something that he felt was wrong. Whatever the reason, don't push it because if he grudgingly agrees to you won't enjoy it anyways. Try to find the truth. Talk to him.
2006-06-27 10:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by femme fatale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him...maybe there is a reason behind why he doesn't want to. Make sure that he's comfortable having sex at this point in your relationship. It always helps to talk things out and be honest with each other. Especially when it comes to something as special as sex.
2006-06-27 10:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by CPSweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on lots of things. Maybe he's a virgin, maybe he's gay and is using you as a "cover", maybe he just doens't dig you sexually, maybe he's tired or shy or just not a horny guy (hey that rhymes).
You can be guessing forever so you need to talk to him and find out. Maybe you can get him in the mood. A little sucky sucky perhaps? *wiggle eyebrows*
No really, guys are fricken horn dogs. Something's wrong, this guy is broken. Talk to him before trying anything.
2006-06-27 10:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait. sex shouldnt be rushed. you should wait till he wants to if you rush him into it then it isnt going to be all that good. when ppl have sex both ppl are willing to have sex with each other. there is nothing wrong with him not wanting that and if you dont think you can wait then i'm guessing your not in love with this guy so you should just go find someone who will **** you.
2006-06-27 10:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by lil_bit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He' no longer a boyfriend, erase his number from your phone and go to the candy shop and get you a toy for the time being and just chill, enjoy life, and take advantage of being single, it really is good to have time to chill and get to know who you are.
Good Luck!
2006-06-27 10:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by brownfox1126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a Christian you praise God you can find someone who wants to be with you for you and not for sexual motives. How long have you been together? Maybe you just need to give it time. I have a few friends who've told their girlfriends to slow it down.
2006-06-27 10:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tynnkitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait and you ask him why he doesn't want to have sex with u if his answer is good than there u go.
2006-06-27 10:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably just tired.my man is permanently tired from all the weird shifts he does on buses.He nods off constantly.
2006-06-27 10:09:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋