ok well my bf is in cali and his sisters called me right infront of him!The told me he was making moves on another girl or 2 I dont remember!But his lil cousin that doesnt lie said it to!They gave him the phone when they were done and of course he denied it!Then he said his sisster wanted her phone baq and she said in the baq round "no i dont!"
I am so confused I really llike him but th9is is so not right!I dont know who to believe!It's killing me to just think about him doing this to me!I mean I have been through an abusive relationship.Now I might have som1 trying to cheat on me or might be cheating on me!I am so confused! Who should I believe and what should I do!
2006-06-27 10:00:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he bought me exspensive earings while he was there! Do you think he might be trying to buy me off?We have been dating 4 almost a month not long at all!
Is he seriously trying to screw this up?!
2006-06-27 11:28:20 · update #1
there are 2 things that might have happend.
either his relatives were in the mood for bad jokes. and him doin nothin about that, just denyin it, its not that good. but...
or, they were right. which means they care more about you than they do about their brother. highly unlikely.
my guess. evil sisters and cousin. bad joke. chill. :D
2006-06-27 10:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by nisip 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I was call them back, and see if you can really get to the bottom of this. It's possible that his sisters were joking, but you seem to trust them for a reason. The fact that he was lying and said that his sister or cousin wanted the phone (so he didn't have to talk to you about it) sends a red flag. How long have oyu two been dating anyways? He sounds immature, and I would dump him before he can hurt you. Maybe you need a little break from dating seeing as you just got out of an abusive relationship, too. Rebuild your spirit and self esteem, and stand up for yourself!
2006-06-27 17:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by MesChatons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u heard it from someone who doesn't lie and has no reason to lie to u or break u guys up, u should go wth them. Ur man will say whatever he has to say in order to keep u, and do what he wants. I'd give it more time, there are usually signs that u can pick up on. I'd believe the cousin and keep the bf thing in the back of my head. Keep calling him at odd times so he doesn't expect it. If u keep on letting him do this, he'll get bolder, and it'll be so obvious, but u'll be in too deep, and u'll be even more confused.
2006-06-27 17:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go with your gut. You shouldn't break up with a guy over speculation cause you dont have proof. Honestly his sisters might have been playing around trying to get ya'll to start a fight or break up. As for the little cousin, they can be easily inflienced to do or say something by other people. So i dont think you should jump to conclusions, you dont have proof. But remember the saying "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." just be aware that it could happen.
2006-06-27 17:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by queenava17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First the man will always deni deni deni so to share a little story my ex was cheating on me and his twin brother told on him while he was standing beside me at first he tried to deni it but i knew better than to believe that because why would your twin lie on you my ex had the girl calling his brothers house so his brothers girl made him tell me. My ex eventually told me the truth after a few min.
But follow your heart it will never lie to you. He probably lied to you, you have to consider the source and their reasons for telling you.
Remember your heart will never lie and you don't want to in a untrustful relationship.
2006-06-27 17:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by hot_mommie00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems he is cheating. you will be much stronger in your future relationships and also much wiser. So I would count that as a blessing. Don't take it personal the dumb jerk would have done it to anyone. He is immature and selfish so don't be down and just move on and be thankful that you learned that lesson early on
2006-06-27 17:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should listen to them not him and confront him on it because if he is than break up with him first hear his side of the story and well take it from there.I've been there more than once.And I know its tough but u gotta do what u gotta do.
2006-06-27 17:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i would trust your boyfriend. since sisters and family can tend to do mean things. give it time. if you still skeptical then tell him. but a realationship is passed on trust and honesty. if you don't have that then there is no bases for it. i say trust him sounds like they trying to play you.
2006-06-27 17:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by short.lil_momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be so stupid! Read this over again and tell me what you should do?! You should delete his number and dump him and never speak to the cheating brat again.
2006-06-27 17:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by kaycee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is cheating or his family is insane. Either way, is that a situation that you need to be involved with? I wouldn't waste any more time on any of them.
2006-06-27 17:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lubers25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋