how do you deal with school bullies?

Question

you know the kind that tease you when your fat or dont have cool shoes or braces

Answer 1

NOTHING will work, except sticking up for yourself -- look them square in the eye, tell them they are morons and they need to go find someone else to pick on. Look as if you will kick their butts if they push it (don't actually plan to get in a fight with them -- that is so unclassy for girls to be doing, but if it comes down to it you definately need to know how to defend yourself)

Best way to stick up for yourself is to have smart comebacks and sarcastic remarks - like if they say you are fat look at them square in the eye with a half-smirk and say "what's up with you checking out other girls, are you so infatuated with my body that you can't htink of anything better to spend your time on?" or if they make fun of your braces say "at least my braces will come off in a year, your ugly face and annoying attitude is with you for life hon" and if they make fun of your shoes say "are you seriously so lame that you care what kind of shoes people wear? how about the lint on my socks, is that not cool lint either??"

Have a sense of humor about it, tease them right back, bully them right back and have someone show you -- older siblings, kids on your street, dad or even mom, or best is to take karate classes -- how to beat someone up if you have to (again, never hit anyone, this is all just good for you to have some confidence that you won't get beat up, or so you can defend yourself if bullying urns physical) and then watch how fast they leave you alone and go pick on the next weak person

Answer 2

well i got in 1000000 of fights this year with 8th graders cuz they were older. look just ride it out and dont worry about all of them and u will relize how much stronger u really are when the year is over and u made it through. you could try to ignor but it never worked for me. you could say things back but you should let someone no so that the school can say if you ever got in a fight yes so and so did come and tell us this person was bothering her. it helps in the long run. but just take it 1 day at a time and worry about the moment and forget what they say because words tear but you cant let that get 2 u. good luck (IM WITH U ALL DA WAY WIT BULLIES) but rember fist fight do get u suspended!!!!! trust me lol

Answer 3

I know it can be hard but you just have to ignore them. Sometimes even laugh at them that why they will get bored of teasing because it isn't as much fun if they don't get you upset. If this doesn't work then you need to talk to someone in charge that can help you.

Answer 4

i had people make fun of me all the time,
when i was little
and the funny thing is, that i wouldn't get sad,
i'd get mad
i would get so pissed off at them!
but most of the time i would just ask them to stop
if they didn't, then i'd tell them off
i'd just tell them that they were just jealous or something
lol or something like that...
it was a long time ago!
so yeah it's been fun
if u have any, they really are just jealous
they put u down, to put them up
so if u tell them off...
it will teach them that it don't work on u
show em who is boss!
lol good luck and
have a great day! : )

Answer 5

You just have to ignore them, as hard as it is.

If it becomes too much for you, visit the school counselor and talk about it. She doesn't have to do anything to them, but it will give you a chance to get your emotions off your chest and will give the school a heads up for potential problems.

Answer 6

Get a crowd and find a way to humiliate them in public... Like get sum 1 to pull down there pants or get sum 1 to put a pie in there face or find sum 1 to kick there ***... LOL

Answer 7

How about putting your question in the right category....this is the dining out in San Diego section.

Answer 8

have your father hang out in the bathroom and take the bully to the bathroom then have your father come out and deal with them, kick his but

Answer 9

I don't care first I ignore them but then I kick their *** or do the same to them.

Answer 10

You are in the wrong category; this is about dining out.