how many of you out there are in a relationship of at least three years, are cheating and why?.?

Question

I would also like to hear from everyone who is not cheating and why?

Answer 1

I have been in both situations. When i cheated in long-term relationships it was because i had gaping, aching needs that were not being met in my relationship but i wanted to keep the primary relationship because of various reasons like love, the kids, social acceptance, financial, codependence, etc.

Now i am in a long term relationship and not cheating and it is so wonderful to finally be fully open and honest. Such a relief. Now i see that my deception made it impossible for my primary relationship to be satisfying to me. Because i was distancing myself from it by the cheating. I understand the motivations to cheat. But i don't recommend it. Deception is a wound on the soul. A gash down the middle of your life.

Answer 2

i am in a way my b/f dont pay much attention to me so i look elsewhere he yells at me and in his eyes i never do anything right i am only with him now cause our baby if i leave he takes her so i have to stay with him for now but i get on the internet and flirt tell ppl i am single just for some attention