my exboyfriend is good friends with all my friends/roomates, and he comes around the house and out with us often. when i see him my heart almost seizes and i get so nervous. i don't know if i still love him because it's been 1.5 yrs since we broke up but i can't relax when he's around. my chest gets tight and i don't act calm and when i talk to him i keep my breath and speech quick and shallow. i can't even walk across the livingroom normally when he's in the room.
i always feel like i'm falling apart. does anyone have any suggestions to calm my nerves? no drugs or alcohol jokes please.
i thought i was over him, but he keeps coming around. for example, he's basically invited himself for camping this weekend at my parents' campsite
2006-06-27 09:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
player one, i'm glad you didn't read it because you'd give a sh!tty answer anyway
2006-06-27 09:55:24 · update #1
too long to read summarize it pls
2006-06-27 09:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by player one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Maybe he comes around so often because he isn't over you either. I tried everything i could think of to keep him off my mind and to stay "normal" when he was around, but nothing worked. So I decided that the only way out was to talk to him about it. I think you need to talk to him and find out what his motivation is for coming around so often. If you don't feel like you can handle talking to him about it, get a trusted friend to do it for you. Once you get things figured out, then maybe you will go back to "normal". If he still has feelings for you and the two of you didn't break up for a bad reason ( cheating, abuse, etc.) then maybe the two of you could give your relationship another chance. If it is meant to be, then it will work out.
Good luck.
2006-06-27 10:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all ican say is talk to him about it and if he under stands hellstay out of ur life nother option is to get another someone to focus on
2006-06-27 09:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by wat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore what was between you , that's if you are not sure of ur love towards him , if not , just be normal , and talk to him , like there was nothing between you ,that's what I would do if I were you ;)
2006-06-27 09:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ask yourself if you want to have anything more to do with him...if 'yes', go talk to him, if 'no', ask him outright why he's hanging around all the time, and let him know u don't want to see him anymore...but you're going to have to answer that one...
2006-06-27 09:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it it will go away
2006-06-27 09:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by ashleelover1112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋