MY PARTNER HAS BEEN A BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN FOR ABOUT 15+ YEARS AND SUFFERS FROM EXTREME ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION AND HAS RECENTLY SEEN A CHRISTIAN PSYCHOLOGIST AND CHRISTIAN COUNSELLOR AND HAS BEEN ASKED TO READ THE FOLLOWING SCRIPTURES;
II TIM CH1 V7
JOHN CH 14 V27
ROM 8 V 15
1JOHN CH4 V18
CAN YOU PLEASE ELABORATE ON THIS. NOT THAT SHE DOES NOT UNDERSTAND, MORE TO GIVE AN ADVANCED OR FURTHER UNDERSTANDING!
PLEASE DONT GIVE STUPID ANSWERS!
2006-06-27 09:46:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
"For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline." 1 Tim. 1:7
"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27
For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry, "Abba, Father." Romans 8:15
There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. 1 John 4:18
All of these verses represent the 'wholeness' that is found within a healthy relationship with Christ. I think they are words of encouragement (especially for anyone suffering from anxiety/depression.)
In simple language: "Claim the blood of Christ!" (in order to free oneself from the "opression" of Satan!)
May I also suggest the verse: Matthew 6:33 which says:
"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."
(I just finished preaching a message on this topic.)
The only one who can free your partner from the oppression she finds herself in, is God - She needs to learn to discipline herself to "rely totally on God". (It takes practice!)
God Bless. I'll keep you both in prayer.
2006-06-27 09:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by redglory 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
These are only my interpretations of the scripture and why a therapist might want you to read them and do not mean them to be used as anything but...
II TIM is telling about the power we each have and that we need to use that as strength. If she has anxiety I am guessing this is just to tell her to use the power she is given and do not be diminished by the other meaningless stuff in this world.
John - Easy enough, God's calming powers. The power to have peace inside even in a hectic world, and I am guessing why she wants someone with anxiety to read this is pretty self evident.
Romans - Actually looks like you have four versus that reiterate the same thing. You were not given this life and spirit to just breeze through, you are given it to life even through your fear. If you do not use it that is a life wasted.
1 John - You can have no fear about what life holds (of course we are talking about fear that consumes you, not that you cannot be afraid of everyday things) but more so about not letting that fear hold you back from living a life that was a gift to you.
So bottom line, sounds like your partner is a little afraid of life and that is what is causing anxiety. (given this is dime store psychology on yahoo answers) but I would say that your partner just needs to remember that she embodies power and spirit, she just needs to live that way, other wise she is going to waste the one chance she has at this life. It is easier said than done, by any means, but know that this is true. You make your own fear, you make your own happiness... if you decide to be frightened by this world you will be, on the other hand if you take everything in stride and realize that while you do not want to waste this life, it is just one life in an eternity. It is not enough to get yourself stressed about, this to shall pass. Peace be with you both (and since she is seeing christian counselors I will take that as a sign, that you do not mind me saying the following, not just pushing believes on you) God be with you as well!!!
2006-06-27 17:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by hannahonelove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may take these scriptures at face value. II tim. is regarding fear, that we should not fear but trust in the Lord. John 14:27 admonishes us the be a peace and trust in the Lord. Rom. 8:15 tells us not to fear. I John 4:18 speaks about perfect love casting out all fear. It seems that the advise is on trusting God with all of our hearts and not leaning on our own understanding of the situations of everyday life. Eventually, there has to be a decision on the individual's part to take a stand for the Lord and stop being a victim of the spirit of fear. I would pray this way: In the name of Jesus, I cast you out spirit of fear. Lord, we ask forginess for anything that may be binding in any way, and claim your victory. In Jesus' name, amen. Fasting will help if the problem continues. Continuous prayer and encouragement is highly recommended.
Mr. M on depression.
2006-06-27 17:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First no one should give advice on a conditoin being treated by a professional.
And many verses in the bible show us not to worry and to love and let peace rule our lives.
And it is not my place to try and tell you or them what they will find in these verses.
I also note the term "partner" not wife, husband, spouse, that puzzles me somewhat, as to the relatonship and its status.
Living outside a bibical relationshipo for a born again Chrsitian can be a dividing issue emotionly.
Also I will add that at times medical help in the forms of drugs and medication to help extreme anxiety and depression is not against the will of God. And should not be forgoten.
as would a complete physcial exam, since many imbalances in body chemistry and cause these problems also
2006-06-27 16:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
John 14:27 Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
Rom 8:15 For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father.”
1 Tim 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.
1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love.
As a Christian, she has no need to fear. She doesn't need to fear God or his wrath (she is forgiven). Even if she sins, or messes up, God will not punish her.
The things on Earth don't need to be feared b/c God is more powerful than them.
That's what the common theme is here.
There are abusive Churches that use fear and intimidation. These undermine much of the good of Christianity, and certainly are not Christian in their nature. Hopefully your partner can overcome these anxieties.
However, if she is in an immoral relationship she may be bringing this on herself. Sorry for the "bad" news, but those are facts to deal with.
2006-06-27 16:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Iridium190 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ..you say your partner. Are you married? cause if you're not you're living In sin,fornication.If you're not married you should get married or else get out of the relationship. If you are married.I suggest getting the teachings that Joyce Meyer has out on this subject. What does your partner think about? What you think about or play over and over In your mind will play out in your daily activities.Anytime we live outside of what God has for us In the bible we set ourself up for disaster.I think the book of JOHN IS a great place for anybody to start In... It tells about the love of CHRIST. There's nothing wrong with good christian counseling either. I would really seek GOD and let HIM lead me to the right path. I will pray that GOD's will Is done In both of your lives. May God Bless You....
2006-06-27 17:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Isabella 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God be with you. It sounds as though your Christian Councilor, is teaching Him to be a Christian , He must first be delivered from these anxieties, before he can become a Holy spirit filled new person. He should go before a Spirit filled Congregation, and let them lay hands him and be delivered , then Study to fill that empty house with God's Word. and Romans 8th Chapter about being a child of God.
2006-06-27 16:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by kritikos43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The counsellors you have been seeing think that the reason why the illness is still having a hold on her is fear. Which could be true. However if these are the only scriptures you have been given then you need to search the scriptures for more possitive uplifting scriptures for balance. Fear is the opposite of faith. If you believe the scripture says all things are possible. Ist Timothy !:7 says if you have fear its not God that has given it to you. Its the devil so he can control you by it. God on the other hand has given you power to overcome even that fear, a spirit to love rather than hate or keep malice or be in strife, etc. These negatives are like shakles in the spirit and can keep one under bondage, bound..sick, unsuccesful, restricted and fail.The reference in John 14 speaks on worry, anxiety, fear of the unknown, failure, Jesus said do not let your heart be troubled. Another scripture says 'Guard your jheart with all deligence because out of it are the issues of life." In otherwords do not allow fear to bring in thoughts of death, impossibilities doubts that would cancel the power of faith. The book of James says The double minded cannot receive anything from God.The reference in Romans encourages us not to loose our sight of the powers we have as adopted children of God. That ability to go to the Father in faith and receive whatsoever we desire. Jesus said whatsoever you desire when you pray (Abba Father) believe and you will recieve.This last scripture reference in I John makes me uneasy. Yes, we need to get rid of fear, but its not the time to talk of becoming perfect. Except the purpose for giving the reference is because the counsellors believe the sick person has hatred in her heart,
I have found that when answers to prayers are stalled , you offer praise. Surround her with so much praise and worship songs that points to the greatness of God and help her see and accept that He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all she can hope or even imagine. She needs for her faith to rise. Surround her with scripture on healing...Read Mathew 15 verses 22-28. This Cananite woman wouldnot take no for an answer. She persisted, Jesus said healing is the food of the children...she said even dogs eat the crumbs from the table. Healing is our right as children of God Why ?Jesus has paid the price. By the 39 stripes on his back we were healed!!! He was bruised for our misdeeds the punishment laid on him has brought us peace. Our cleansing is in that blood that flowed from those wounds. He is the sacrificial lamb. He is the same yesterday, today and forever. So if he healed before he can do it again and again.Specifically the scriptures asks " Is anyone sick? Let him call the elders and let them annoint the person and pray for him/her". Its the annointing that destroys yokes.. You can pray for her if you have faith. Help her get rid of malice, hatred,anger etc. Then pray for her with boldness. Then pray with her. Its that simple. Remember praise, heavy prolonged praise will do it every time The devil and his hosts cannot stand praise and worship..If you have Bible on tape play it where she is continuosly, especially the book of John. Let the Holy Spirit lead you.Romans 8 vs 14. The beauty of Christianity is that it is essentially a one on one with God. God is not a respecter of persons. Let it be done according to your faith. God bless you both
2006-06-27 17:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by wemimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The following scriptures are saying thy(your partner)should have no fear because GOD has not given thy(your partner)fear but have given her peace,sound of mind,love,happiness,joy. Tell your partner to pray that he/she can entrust their self in the LORD and also have then to pray that he/she will not worry about anything but will forget about what ever it is and begin to remember that in Genesis12:3 the Holy Bible said;And I will bless them that bless thee,and curse him that curseth thee:and it shall all families of the earth be blessed. So basic what I am saying your partner is a christian and has believe in God so any thing that happens to her he will use Genesis12:3 to protect her. In Jesus Name, GOD Bless you,and I hope I helped you.
2006-06-27 17:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by cutie200934 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading scriptures doesnt solve every problem. I hope the counselling includes the idea that some problems require answers that arent found in the bible.
If your friend had a broken leg would you solve it with a scripture reading?
2006-06-27 16:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋