2006-06-27 09:45:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Attraction isn't fatal, it isn't reality, it isn't wrong, it isn't worth following up on!
A case in point: You were once, evidently, attracted to your husband.
Attraction doesn't take out the garbage, doesn't go to work, doesn't pay the bills, doesn't put up with all of your crap!
Anyone who follows through on the attraction that effects us all is the biggest fool of all.
Make the same effort toward your marriage, you might be surprised at a new attraction!
2006-06-27 10:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because you are attracted to someone doesn't mean that you should automatically DO something about it (if your married that is) How important is your relationship with your husband?? Would you be willing to take that chance?? These are important questions that you need to be asking yourself before you make ANY moves...both you and your husband took vows to remain faithful to eachother....hopefully this isn't something that you are casting aside very casually.....would your hubby do something like this to you?? and how would you feel if you found out that he did? I don't know the history of you and your husband or how long you have been married but I would just hate to see a marriage go down the tubes because of a fling......
2006-06-27 16:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with your husband. It is very easy to be attracted to a young stud that flashes his pearly whites compared to maybe a husband that comes home from work, does yard work, plays with the kids, has gained weight since you have been married and has loved you everyday since you have met. Is it worth giving all that up? He has time vested with you. The grass is not always greener on the other side. My ex wife found that out. Good Luck!
2006-06-27 16:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been attracted to many men during my marriage, but have never acted upon the attraction. It's fun to look and it's fun to fantasize but I took vows at my wedding and I truly believe in them. I could never cheat on my husband because I love him a lot more than having a 'fling'.
2006-06-27 16:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before u get a divorce u should see if this man really likes u .because if u get a divorce first and this man that u like does not like u than u r gona want 2 get back with your husband but he probably is really mad that u divorced him and then u will be single and im sure u do not want that ... if u get a divorce
2006-06-27 16:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your husband and wish to continue to being true to your wedding vows, you will forget the guy who you are attracted to, it could be more of a lust thing and thats not right. to him or your husband
2006-06-27 16:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have a strong good marriage forget him but if ur husband is a prick or he abuses u divorce his a** and go out w/ the guy
2006-06-27 16:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Ashleyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boink his brains out untill your a puddle of quivering mush
2006-06-27 16:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by m37734 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out who u care about more and who can give you a better life
and chose that guy
2006-06-27 16:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by musicmad93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO IT!!!
Few minutes of pleasure is not worth your marriage
2006-06-27 16:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋