I love to have sex with my boyfriend but he seems to enjoy me giving him pleasure by oral sex more than actual intercourse which I love. I like to please him but want more sex what should I do. When I try to talk about it he seems to shut down.
2006-06-27 09:41:49 · 14 answers · asked by singleandsouthern 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is afraid because he can't keep it up long enough to really satisfy you. You should be aware that most guys should learn how to keep their women happy by soft and sensual kissing all over them and then when it comes to intercourse, have a slow and steady approach because that is what makes the real difference.
He might feel inadequate because he doesn't know how to do it properly. Be supportive and tell him what to do without judging him. Give him a fair and equal chance to try and try again!
2006-06-27 09:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
How about trying for a 69 before you get into the deed? That way, you're both happy (I like giving as much as I like receiving). It will also spice things up. Sex is important in a relationship and if he's not that into the intercourse, you've got to talk about it. Not during. Not right after. But at a time when things are relaxed. He needs to understand what your needs and expectations are as much as you need to for him. Get on the same page and you both will be screaming with delight. Good luck to you.
2006-06-27 16:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with the oral sex and end with an intercourse. how? start with an oral sex. stop to get protection just before he gets too excited. then start with regular intercourse. if he insists on oral sex...say that you will puke if he does that again.but also add that you are into kamasutra and know some new moves.
2006-06-27 16:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me he might acutely be scared. It might be because hes scared of performing sex, or having to live up to being able to go on for hours at a time. It might be because of premature ejaculation? Or could just be he dosent like it, ether way you need to sit and talk.
2006-06-27 16:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by roadrunner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same situation with you too. It gets me so mad that his getting more pleasure than me.. when i ask him for it he'll say just lick it a little bit more and i'll eat u out..... I think their scared to go down or something but we both know that we clean outselves down there....
2006-06-27 16:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Eileen B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're tired of the oral sex, and you want some hot monkey lovin' or you're lookin' for another guy! LOL
2006-06-27 16:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only thing i can tell you from a guys point of view is that... It's a big turn on for him seeing you giving him oral sex..... i know it sounds lame... but its a fetish more than a problem....
2006-06-27 16:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by aktion.man12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its all about him. I'd be demanding my own satisfaction and see how he responds to that.
2006-06-27 16:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by hoop_102 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you will finish him when you are done...or try to get creative in "bed" and make him want to have sex..
2006-06-27 16:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by Melany V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two can play at his game sweetie. If he won't be there for you and please you the way you want then do the same for him.
2006-06-27 16:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by SL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋