14 y/o stalker, part 2?

Question

Thanks for all the wonderfull answers and support for my first question about this!
I was wondering if anyone thought that by filing a police report I would be making the situation worse? I'm a little afraid that his family or friends will get involved if we go to the police. I don't want to get anything else started, or make things worse for my daughter. I just want to make this go away. Has anyone else had a problem with a stalker before? If so, how did you handle it?

Answer 1

I checked out your previous question and WOW! I would say you definitely have a problem. I know how emotional and vindictive teens can be so I completely understand your dilemma. When it comes to your children's safety, I would rather err on the side of caution! Think of all the hormones and testosterone this young man has running through his system... if you were to only attack this situation half heartedly, you run the risk of simply embarrassing him and further enraging his already emotional state. Obviously if he is stalking your daughter, he has little to no self control. Think of a pissed off teen boy catching your daughter in a situation where she is alone or off guard.(walking home from school, on her way to a friends house...) What is he capable of? I would rather you never find out! I would certainly go to the police and talk to someone involved in juvenile services. His behavior is NOT normal and should be investigated. It is entirely possible he needs a mental health eval and would benefit from some professional help. Good Luck and God bless!

Answer 2

It's very likely best that the police be aware of the situation. I checked out your last question posted for more details, and it sounds like the kid's got a history already, which, while unfortunate for the kid, MIGHT make it a little easier to get some help from the authorities with this.

If the police know that this guy has a history of this behavior, they'll file it away. Should the kid get it into his head to actually physically press his presence on your daughter (and I sincerely hope that does not happen), having that history on file will help the police make absolutely sure that the kid goes away - away to juvenile detention or whatever is deemed appropriate. The first time he lays a hand on her, it's assault and should be immediately reported.

In the meantime, talk to your daughter. She's obviously aware of the danger, which is a very good first step. Do what you can to make sure she is never travelling alone, and if you can clear it with the school, some pepper spray might be a good idea. Heck, even if you can't clear it with the school, it might be a good idea.

Stalkers are extremely scary. I've had people follow me like this before, but never for so long. Be as careful as you can!!

I've got my fingers crossed that something changes for the better for you and your daughter - and SOON!

Best of luck!!

Answer 3

nicely, listed right here are some thoughts. substitute your daughter's cellular huge form or get rid of all of it jointly. Use the decision block function on your homestead telephone to dam his huge form. talk to the police and report a list. definite, you'll get a restraining order, yet i might want to characterize submitting a police list first. Why have you ever waited to get the police in touch? you should also talk to the school about this before the hot college three hundred and sixty 5 days begins. call the police, now.

Answer 4

Only you can decide if the situation requires the authorities. Are you afraid of the boys' family members? there are other ways to scare the holly crap out of the boy, but I won't discuss them here. But the boy has to be stopped somehow. Perhaps you need legal advice.

Answer 5

If you don't take it to the police, he may keep doing it. Sometimes that's the only way they get the hint.