Pease, she is my new girl friend when I had a problem with my girl friend of five (5) years. Now that I have settled with my old girl friend, how do I send her out without problems or biase feelings from her. She is good to me, but I have to follow my heart desire, which is my former girl. Please, help me because she is leaving with me as I am typing to you. And if my parents got to know of it, they will disown me. She started leaving with when she lost her job, because she cannot foot her house rent. I am a student for that matter. HELP PLEASE!
2006-06-27 09:14:13 · 4 answers · asked by GreatPaulo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with her. If you ever truely loved her she deserves honesty and respect.
Painful, but fair.
2006-06-28 01:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i must tell you that you should have given yourself time before entering a new relationship but i guess you have worked that out for yourself!
There isn't an easy way of telling her.You will have to be open and honest. Tell her you didn't mean to hurt her but you still love your ex and that you want to give it another try.
I can't promise you that she wont be upset and obviously as i don't know her i cannot say how she will react but if your honest with her she will eventually respect you for that.
2006-07-04 03:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like u got yourself into a situation with 2 women, rough waters there, but the best answer is to be honest...if you still have strong feelings for the 1st one, be honest and kind to the second and let her know....there will probably be a 'scene', and you'll feel like a heel, but better to get it over with and get on with life....she'll forgive you...someday...you don't work together, do you? LOL
2006-06-27 09:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complicated! But honesty is always best and don't delay. Explain to her how you feel, of course she'll be well upset and justifiably so, but sooner or later somebody is going to be hurt.
2006-06-27 09:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋