Well me and my boyfriend have thought about kissing more...as in french kissing. I know what it is, but my problem...what do I do with my tongue? Do I let it sit in his mouth or move it around??? It is really bugging me...and I need an answer a.s.a.p!
Can you be very descriptive for me...and nothing nasty for your own pleasure, but some good detail advice and maybe what I should do with my tongue...
2006-06-27 09:08:36 · 11 answers · asked by HideAnotherMistake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound younger so how old are you? i didnt get my first kiss till i was 15, but all of my bfs since then have told me im the best kisser they've met. i remember feeling nervous about french kissing and just kissing but i just did exactly what he did. learn from him! unless he is also inexperienced then you can learn together what you guys like
as for actual tips, here's a handy thing i made up for my sister lol. it sounds nasty but just look at eaach thing separately.
you can: suck, bite, kiss, lick, blow, etc
his : lips (upper and lower), tongue, side of mouth, neck, ears, etc
ok like use multiplication and mix and match the two categories, have fun! but as for your question, definitely dont just let your tongue sit there. and remember dont suck or bite too hard. other tips:
try a gentle nibble and pull his lip and then lick/kiss the same spot.
trace his lips/tongue with your tongue in a circular motion.
suck his tongue for a bit then suck his lip and finish with a soft kiss.
also, this isnt french kissing but try eskimo kissing (rubbing noses) and butterfly kisses (flutter eyelashes)! its fun and more affectionate than just sexual kissing
avoid banging teeth or noses (turn your head even more than just regular kissing)
hope this helps!
2006-06-27 09:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by elle 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would do the following:
1. Allow your tongue to caress the inside of his lips (one then the other) first. Slide it playfully along the outside, flicking your tongue along his lips.
2. Make your tongue touch the top of his, and then move quickly away. Do this a couple of times, and then make more lasting contact with his tongue.
3. Open your mouth wide enough that you can move your tongue into his mouth, bringing your bodies closer together...and pull him close to your chest. This will create a sensation of "taking him in" ...and it will make the kiss more effective.
4. Use your hands to hold the sides of his cheeks, and move your tongue around from the top to the bottom of his mouth.
5. Speaking strictly from personal experience and preference, the more "teasing" and tongue-flicking that a woman does to me really gets me excited. But you have to judge when to go for more lips in the action; and not just use your tongue.
2006-06-27 09:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Grey Direwolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would move it around how ever you feel comfortable you can go in circles or you can go up and down or you can do both to change things up a little but you dont ever just leave your tongue sitting in his mouth because that would be very boring for him and then he probably wouldnt want to kiss you again but good luck
2006-06-27 09:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by crystal a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't just let it sit there.
I suggest you put your tongue in his mouth, probably only about 1/3-1/2 of your tongue, and 'gently' move it up and down. I mean slightly, so he can just feel the tip. He'll love it...as long as you do it right. Trying to explain is harder than showing.
2006-06-27 09:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, another teenager asking a kissing question.
Move it around - it's move fun that way
Suck on his tongue
2006-06-27 09:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont french kiss just for the sake of french kissing, it should be done with some fire and gusto. asking for advice? just do what you feel. if theres no feeling behind it, then there is no need in doing it in the first place. dont force feelings or physical things that impose feelings.
2006-06-27 09:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by shaggydude24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is all about the tongue. Inside the mouth you can touch different parts of his insides and outside , you can touch everywhere else.
2006-06-27 09:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be all nervous about if you are doing it right.
I've been complemented on my kissing many times. You really have to go with the flow and try to feel what he is doing. Slow, not super fast. Gently, not all rough, but into it, not all weak. If he goes faster, you do too. If he is gentle, you are too. You have to feel each other.
2006-06-27 09:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by wlocksctgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sweetie your tougue is supposed to move around with his tougue it is supposed touch his . Just make it nice and not all nasty.
2006-06-27 09:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move it around...... long slow kisses are good for yall to start out..
2006-06-27 09:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋