How do I know if my boyfriend really loves me?

Answer 1

guys are pretty honest, so he will tell u

if not, u can ask him

Answer 2

He'll be by your side through tough times. He'll make sure your car runs good so you won't get stranded. He'll make you breakfast and put a smiley face on the pancakes using bacon and raisins. He'll sit and watch a chic flick with you and not tell you that it's boring. He'll respect your parents! He'll talk with you with undivided attention calmy and respectfully! He'll not only tell you your pretty but he'll explain why your a beautiful person.
He'll ask you many times, "Let's go here, Let's go there!"
He'll take your hand, kiss it, look up into your eyes and just smile without saying anything. He'll leave a "have a good day" note where you'll see it when you get up in the morning.
He WON'T call you a million times saying "I miss you, I love you..etc", he'll give you time, then when you call him cause you've wondered why you haven't heard a call from him, he'll tell you that he didn't want to be a pest and just letting you do your thing but assuring you that he wished to hear your voice everyday!
He'll surprise you to a special place you never been before that you have always wanted to go to but never could.

...things like that! :-)

Answer 3

You just have to feel it. No one can tell you if you do or don't. Only you can judge how this person makes you feel and the vibes you recieve from him.

If you think you are in love, and he treats you in a way that emotes mutual respect and you THINK he loves you, he probably does, even if he hasn't said it yet.

Be patient! He'll say it if it's meant to happen. Men don't hold it in forever, but he'll wait until he thinks it's the right time.

Good luck

Answer 4

by the things he does, as in all things and with all people go by what they do not what they say. if their actions don't reflect their words then move on. if what you are looking for is he loves you today and thats any kind of guarantee of anything working out in the future then you are looking for something that will never happen. there are no guarantees, even if he does love you today you still have to be careful with all your decisions and look out for yourself because it doesn't mean he'll love you next week or next year.

Answer 5

You'll know he really loves you if he carries out a plan of purposely doing good things for you, for the reason of showing you that he cares.

Answer 6

you cant thats the exciting part about relationships. stop trying to control it and your feelings and just let whatever happens happen. if you have to ask and figure it out by pointers, then your probably not in love since you dont know what love looks, sounds, or feels like. quit asking questions and figure it out yourself, thats the best part about relationships.

Answer 7

Does he buy you things and surprise you? Does he open doors for you? Does he want to spend alot of time with you? I think you would be able to tell if he did regardless, after all you know him better than we do.

Answer 8

Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.

If he's employed and mature enough to marry you, then you know he loves you.

Answer 9

Talk about getting married. If he runs or looks scared, yu might want to start looking in another direction.

You can also look for him staring at other girls.

Answer 10

If he doesn't tell you, he doesn't.
If he won't say it to you in front of others, he doesn't.
If he can go at least a day without calling you, he doesn't.
If he doesn't make plans with you more than a week out, he doesn't.
If he doesn't use the word "we" in his plans, he doesn't.

Answer 11

trust me there WILL be a time when he can prove himself, if u dont end up on jerry s. with ur bf and he sez hes got a secret then ur good lol