A girl gave me her phone # and I asked her if she really wants to go out with me someday as time passed and we haven't met yet (she's busy working). She said: "what do you think?" Then I said "what do YOU think? not me" and she said that "yes, we will go out someday". So what did she mean when she asked me that?
2006-06-27 08:58:37 · 26 answers · asked by europe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's probably waiting for you to make the first move. I mean she's give you her phone number. But why are you both being so vague and mysterious? Why are you talking about going out "someday" ? Is there some reason you can't ask her out for this Saturday? I think she would like you to be serious and ask her out already.
2006-06-27 09:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Girasol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She meant that it was a stupid question. Of course she wants to go out with you... she wouldn't have given you her number in the first place!
It sucks when we get busy, but don't give up on her. She sounds like she still wants it to happen. Just try not to question her too much. Make it okay that she's been busy and she'll respect you more for your understanding and space when she needs it. No one likes to be nagged, not even about a date.
Good luck, and have patience! Once she has time, I wish the best of times on your first date!
2006-06-27 16:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wanted to be reassured that YOU really wanted to go out with HER.
Tip from an old lady....women are not the best at saying what they mean in a way that men can understand, but never answer a question with a question....look at it as an opportunity to impress her with your quick wit.
If you have a quick wit.
2006-06-27 16:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it as a yes. Call her every weekend and ask her out, and if she says not this weekend four times then take it as a NO!
2006-06-27 16:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to find out is call her and ask her out, if the number is really hers she probably wants to go out with you for real. you are really thinking way too much about this though, it is possible to think things right into a ditch.
2006-06-27 16:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe girl is either playing games or genuinely busy. Or she could just be having second thoughts about her decision, thinking that she acted desperate. Girls are weird like that. You either wait or forget her.
2006-06-27 16:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Adrian W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She meant that if she had not wanted to go out with you, that you would not have received her phone number in the first place.
2006-06-27 16:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out dingy. I mean she gave you her number. pick a time when she isn't busy. it doesn't have to be a big production.
If she puts you off because she is still "too busy" then get over it.
2006-06-27 16:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows? Probably playing games with you. Does she want you to ask her or will she ask you when the time is right for her. I wouldn't put too much faith in her at all.
2006-06-27 16:10:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...someday to be a year away, do you really want to wait that long to go out with someone?
2006-06-27 16:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋