2006-06-27 08:57:45 · 14 answers · asked by cassie t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's in the way he acts. Will he wait to be physical with you or does he pressure you? Does he ask you questions about yourself? Does he like to spend time with you and talk on the phone with you? Guys who are just in it for "one thing" are usually very impatient and don't like to wait around. They won't try to spend time with you other than at your house, etc and won't try to take you out. They won't introduce you to friends and family members. The most important thing is wait to be physical until you have gotten to know him. Good luck honey!
2006-06-27 09:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who only want the sex will do anything...anything to get laid...poor bastards. If you cut them off, they'll be fine with it. If you tell them you want to wait until marriage...so do they...until you finally let your guard down and say, ok I think we've waited long enough, blah, blah,blah. Then faster than you can wipe your butt they'll be out the door. You have to see that no matter how hard you try, not matter how much you study someone's actions they will do exactly what they want, when they want to.
Here's the kicker, if you start playing all these stupid mind games and the guy happens to be a really good guy who really likes you and would never leave you for any reason, as soon as he finds out...and Oh Yes he will find out...he will lose all respect for you. What will keep him hanging around then? If you show yourself and the guy respect by being honest then you can never be faulted.
2006-06-27 16:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never have sex with a guy until you know....otherwise it's the sex that keeps him coming back...not the relationship.
2006-06-27 16:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by hardbodied_romantic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already had sex with him, cut him off and see if he sticks around. If you haven't had sex with him, let him know that you're looking for a committed relationship and you're not comfortable having sex with him right away. If he likes you he'll be willing to wait.. and he won't try and pressure you to do anything you don't want to.
2006-06-27 16:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Purplelicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't plan on having sex until you're married. Whether you mean it or not doesn't matter. If he's interested in just you, he'll stick around, if he's just interested in sex, he'll leave. You don't need to be telling the truth when you say it, it's just something that will make you realize what he wants from you.
2006-06-27 16:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex with him for as long as you can. if he is still around and not pressuring you after a couple of months then he's not just after sex!
2006-06-27 16:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy. If you have sex with him and he stays, then he likes you. If you have sex with him and he leaves, it was just for sex.
2006-06-27 16:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by mcskwayrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit going to bed with him. If he says that you need to "prove" your love, then dump him and find a guy that will appreciate you for you....not just what's between your legs. Best of luck....
2006-06-27 16:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex with him. if he wants you for you he'll stick around.
that was the easiest question to answer.
follow your head - not your 'you know what' (because those things LIE to us all )
2006-06-27 16:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess the only way to really figure that out would be to ask him, its hard to read guys sometimes, so you just have to be straight forward and ask
2006-06-27 16:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by mystrugglewithin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋