If the dog is large and capable of hurting you, perhaps you should not go to grandma's house until she shows some concern for your safety.
If the dog is small and incapable of doing anything more than perhaps making you bleed a little bit, tell grandma to either put it away or discipline the damn thing when it misbehaves.
I often see dog owners, especially women dog owners, let their little furry monsters abuse their husbands and kids. Yet if the husbands or kids were to get out of line with the dog, there would be hell to pay. It is inconsiderate and inexcusable that your mom AND your grandmother would put you in harms way over a little mutt!!!!
FEEL FREE TO TELL THEM BOTH THAT I SAID SO!!!
Anyway, do not run away from ANY dog that acts aggressive towards you. Not ever. Unless you are certain you will be able to reach safety before it can get you. Even a small lap dog will catch you, and if you run away, it won't make them feel sorry for you. It will make them brave and more likely to bite. If the dog is large enough to win the fight, try to find something, anything, to put in between you. It can be a tree branch, a trash basket, or a gun. Dogs are less likely to attack a human who has something in his hands, even if that object is useless as a weapon. They don't know any better.
If you are attacked, don't play dead. Fight. And it is important to get the dog on his back and hold him there. Dogs don't like being on their back. If he doesn't submit, and a lot of them will, even if they bite you a couple times in the process, they will at least have less leverage in their bite and vigor in their attack.
If the dog is very small, boot that little mutt across the room like a football, and tell the owner that if he or she doesn't control their dog, he'll get it again the next time he tries to bite you.
If the dog doesn't go after you, but just growls, don't back away from it. That's when you grab something like a trash can lid, and back HIM up against the wall. Don't hit him with it. Just use it to shoo him. Stand tall over him to make him feel small. As soon as he acts scared, leave him alone. If he suddenly gets brave, do it again.
Completely ignore him unless he acts either friendly or aggressive to you. Don't look at him, don't touch him, and don't talk to him. Eventually, he will likely accept you, but let it be on his terms. That doesn't mean you have to put up with his bad behavior.
It is sad and pathetic that your parents and grandmother think that they should. But since they won't do their job, it is all up to you..
2006-06-27 09:11:37
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answered by elchistoso69 5
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First, never look a dog straight in the eyes - it's considered an agressive move, and that will only make matters worse. Approach the dog with your hand out, palm up - like you might have a treat in your hand, just so it realizes you do not intend on hitting it. When people quickly bring their hand down over a dogs head, that is the same movement that is made when someone would hit the dog. Remember, it's true they can sense if you are afraid or nervous, so do your best to keep calm. Speak softly and slowly, and talk reassuringly to the dog. The dog is probably just being protective of grandma, so therefore, try not to put yourself between her and the dog. This way the dog will not see you as a threat to your grandmother. If you still feel uncomforable around the dog, ask grandma to put it up in a room or a fenced yard while you are there. If you are willing to make the effort for the visit, then she should understand your concerns and make the adjustment while you are there.
2006-06-27 15:57:19
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answered by buggsnme2 4
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first don't run away, dogs animal instincts are to run after anything that has their back towards them and runs. don't look at him straight in the eye cause he may feel threaten, and just stay calm most of all, but it should not bother you if its your grandmas dog because if your not a threat to her then there is no reason for it to bother you. also if the dog barks or growls tell your grandma to tell the dog "no", and he will listen to her knowing that you are off limits. let him sniff you so he can recognize you and even give him a treat so he knows your friendly.
there are also friendly barks and growls, if the dog tail is wagging or Play bow (Going down with front legs in a bowing position can be an invitation to play if the dog is moving legs from side to side in a playful manner), these you dont have to worry about.
2006-06-27 15:52:51
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answered by illi23 4
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first don't run away, dogs animal instincts are to run after anything that has their back towards them and runs. don't look at him straight in the eye cause he may feel threaten, and just stay calm most of all, but it should not bother you if its your grandmas dog because if your not a threat to her then there is no reason for it to bother you. also if the dog barks or growls tell your grandma to tell the dog "no", and he will listen to her knowing that you are off limits. let him sniff you so he can recognize you and even give him a treat so he knows your friendly.
there are also friendly barks and growls, if the dog tail is wagging or Play bow (Going down with front legs in a bowing position can be an invitation to play if the dog is moving legs from side to side in a playful manner), these you dont have to worry about.
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If the dog is large and capable of hurting you, perhaps you should not go to grandma's house until she shows some concern for your safety.
If the dog is small and incapable of doing anything more than perhaps making you bleed a little bit, tell grandma to either put it away or discipline the damn thing when it misbehaves.
I often see dog owners, especially women dog owners, let their little furry monsters abuse their husbands and kids. Yet if the husbands or kids were to get out of line with the dog, there would be hell to pay. It is inconsiderate and inexcusable that your mom AND your grandmother would put you in harms way over a little mutt!!!!
FEEL FREE TO TELL THEM BOTH THAT I SAID SO!!!
Anyway, do not run away from ANY dog that acts aggressive towards you. Not ever. Unless you are certain you will be able to reach safety before it can get you. Even a small lap dog will catch you, and if you run away, it won't make them feel sorry for you. It will make them brave and more likely to bite. If the dog is large enough to win the fight, try to find something, anything, to put in between you. It can be a tree branch, a trash basket, or a gun. Dogs are less likely to attack a human who has something in his hands, even if that object is useless as a weapon. They don't know any better.
If you are attacked, don't play dead. Fight. And it is important to get the dog on his back and hold him there. Dogs don't like being on their back. If he doesn't submit, and a lot of them will, even if they bite you a couple times in the process, they will at least have less leverage in their bite and vigor in their attack.
If the dog is very small, boot that little mutt across the room like a football, and tell the owner that if he or she doesn't control their dog, he'll get it again the next time he tries to bite you.
If the dog doesn't go after you, but just growls, don't back away from it. That's when you grab something like a trash can lid, and back HIM up against the wall. Don't hit him with it. Just use it to shoo him. Stand tall over him to make him feel small. As soon as he acts scared, leave him alone. If he suddenly gets brave, do it again.
Completely ignore him unless he acts either friendly or aggressive to you. Don't look at him, don't touch him, and don't talk to him. Eventually, he will likely accept you, but let it be on his terms. That doesn't mean you have to put up with his bad behavior.
It is sad and pathetic that your parents and grandmother think that they should. But since they won't do their job, it is all up to you..
2006-06-27 16:15:38
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, the owner should be disciplining the dog not to do that. This dog thinks it's top dog and is doing it's job by demanding respect. What I would do, is do not stare the dog in the eye. You are being confrontational when you do that. Also, if you go to pet ANY dog, always put your palm up towards the mouth. This tells the dog "Hello" because he can smell you first. Also, by making yourself vulnerable to his bite, he sees you are not attacking him. Only pat a dog on the head once he knows you. Otherwise he may see you as attacking him.
I always refer dog owners to Cesar Milan, the "Dog Whisperer", as he makes it clear how to train dogs.
http://www.dogpsychologycenter.com/
2006-06-27 15:59:56
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answered by jencanadian 3
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Yes, I agree with the other person, bring dog biscuits, he will love you after that , as dogs are real suckers for food and treats. In a neighborhood I used to live in in Vancouver BC, Canada, I used to walk down the alleys to get to work as the main road was so busy, and I didn't like the noise or exhaust fumes. All the dogs used to bark at me, so I started bringing dog biscuits, and after the first time I walked down the alley and gave dog biscuits out, they all stopped barking, and seemed to be able to tell when I was coming, and would wait at their gates wagging their tails awaiting their treats. I befriended about a dozen dogs, and looked forward to seeing them, and didn't always have to have a treat with me after the first week or so. I miss those dogs, as I moved a few years ago, and were I live doesn't really have alleys like that.
2006-06-27 15:59:18
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answered by Crowfeather 7
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Carry a big stick or a knife to kill the dog with if he gets very violent. Also, if it's a big dog attacking you, you can shove your fist down its throat. I've heard of a guy who killed a dog that way. You can poke its eyes out too, if you need to. I think you'll be safe without doing these things, but it's good to know about them just in case you need to do something drastic.
Now, if you want the dog to like you, get someone the dog likes to introduce him to you. After a while, the dog will like you enough for you to be alone with him. Good luck!
2006-06-27 15:57:49
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answered by anonymous 7
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The dog does not like you for some reason. I would be very cautious around it without showing a whole lot of fear. Growling and acting like that are signs of aggression and animals do not know "hey thats so and so"..sounds like he is territorial. Try not to let yourself be alone with the dog
2006-06-27 15:53:46
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answered by hatingmsn 6
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If you're approached by a strange dog, DO NOT run away or act afraid. Wrap your fingers inside your hand and... very slowly... allow the dog to sniff your hand. Don't get down on his "level" and look him in the eye. He'll feel threatened, and you put yourself at risk for a nasty dog bite to the face. Don't make any sudden movements, and don't look them in the eye for prolonged periods of time. You'll be fine.
2006-06-27 15:55:00
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answered by Luann 5
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first act as a cat and say mewwwwwwww the dog will run away
we r in different era now
dogs fear from cats
wives hit their husbands without mercy
2006-06-27 16:01:35
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answered by micho 7
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