A few months ago my x-hub passed away an x-bf came to my side to comfort me, then we started "talking" He tells me ALL the time that he loves me and wants to be with me BUT...so many excuses. 1) he had girlfriend, now gone 2) going to court and wants to commit AFTER that 3)doesn't want kids to not like me so taking slow. His son lives next door, he won't come over at all if they are awake. We did find out I was preg a few weeks ago but miscarried, so there was this bond. Should I wait and see what happens next week at court, or is he blowing me smoke?
2006-06-27 08:48:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait! Ask God!
2006-06-27 08:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep him as just a friend. You two have a past together but that was then. Your husband has passed so you shouldn't put yourself in a situation with more worries. He has two many problems to deal with and you shouldn't be worried about his problems because I am quite sure you have your own. He is blowing you smoke!
2006-06-27 15:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop him, you deserve someone that is not going to make Any excuses, after what you have been through, you deserve someone thats going to be there for you, no matter what time of day it is and who is awake next door.
2006-06-27 15:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, this man's middle name is " drama king" move on. Court? that means he's going to have to spend some cash on legal fees, which means less spent on you. Tell him gotta go!
2006-06-27 16:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Boss' n it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on. Its so smokey I can barely read your question. Dont let anyone put you on the back burner and sneak in and sneak out. What the hell is that all about ?
2006-06-27 15:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should drop him, you've had a hard enough time as it is with the miscarriage, it sounds like he's stringing you along, you should get out now
2006-06-27 15:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him!! you will find someone new if you allow yourself to!
a man who finds excuses and hides you from the world is not sure about keeping you..why wait...just dump him!
2006-06-27 15:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by docecil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's using you for the sex. Drop him.
2006-06-27 15:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are the only one who knows the whole story, and i think you also know the answer too. just don't waste your time.
2006-06-27 15:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by andrea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look..this sounds bad..i think you shout get rid of him....But if you ask me..its your desition
2006-06-27 15:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋