Hello,
I've been talking with a girl who I admire very much, she is truly beautiful, and I think perhaps I've done something to upset her...
I know that all woman are special, but this gal is EXTRA SPECIAL she makes me feel warm inside and is great to talk with how do I go about apologising?
Thanks!!
2006-06-27 08:45:52 · 39 answers · asked by East Bay Punk 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what I done to be honest, just maybe took things a bit too far? with what I said?
2006-06-27 08:54:12 · update #1
Yes!!! I think you're Almost there
2006-06-28 02:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Have you actually physically met this girl? Or is it just talk on the phone or via the net?
I don't believe it can be true love if you haven't actually met up with her, spent time in her company, and got to understand her properly. There is always a potential that love will develop, don't get me wrong - but I think it takes more than just talking or typing and sending photos - it's too easy to misinterpret what's being said.
Which brings me to your next question. Perhaps what you said has hurt or upset or worried her, and because you don't know each other very well, she hasn't felt able to tell you. Or perhaps there's something going on in her life you don't know about, and she is upset for a different reason altogether.
All you can do is ask her straight if you've upset her, and if she says yes and can explain why, apologise and say you'll try harder in future. It's lovely that you care so much for her, and I don't want to rain on your parade - but if you can, I'd suggest you meet up with her and take it from there.
2006-06-27 09:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A truly thoughtful present needs to be purchased, preferably something expensive. It's not that women demand expensive presents but we know how important money is to you guys so we equate the value of the item to the value you place on us.
Ask her if she's OK and if you've upset her. If she says yes get an explanation, say sorry if it's appropriate and then present her with the gift. Say that you hate to see her sad because she's so special and you brought her the gift to cheer her up, then back off. Give her space and just the occasional warm smile. If she at some point starts talking to you again she obviously likes you so ask her out on a date.
2006-06-27 09:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually know what you did to upset her??
Whatever the scenario a direct apology stating, as above, how much you admire her etc seems the best approach. Her reaction will, I guess, be based on whatever you have done to upset her.
What I don't understand is why you are combining two questions - one whether this is true love and second the apology.
If you do really like her and there is apologising to do, make sure it is done in a genuine manner, and be understanding and patient if she does not immediately forget about the issue.
If you want to win someone's heart, patience is always required.
2006-06-27 08:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u feel deep down that she is your true love, like u just know she is? If so then yes. As far as apologizing just tell her in person how sorry u r and how u truely feel about her. Tell her she's extra special.
2006-06-27 08:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you really did not do anything. Maybe it is something she is feeling. Like maybe she is feeling guilty because she is in a relationship or
something like that. Wish you the best.
Don't make the mistake of coming on to strong with your words and feelings. You just might scare her off.
2006-06-27 11:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem sweet so i'll help, first off you love her second off tell her that your sorry you didn't mean to upset her and that you do in fact love her very much. True love is a truely rare thing so don't let her go! If you do you may not get her back good luck!
2006-06-27 08:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Whatsername 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does sound like you have fallen for her. Talk to her and say what you just told her i.e. Have i done something to upset you, and what can i do to make things better between us
Be honest and open about your feelings
good luck
2006-06-27 08:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by ANGEL-T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how special she is, how much you love her (if that is in fact how you feel. If you don't or are still unsure don't tell her that you do. Just tell her how you feel about her), how you would never do anything on purpose to upset her and that your very very sorry for what you did.
2006-06-27 08:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by fickle_green 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know what you've done how can you apologize. write her a note asking her what's up and take it from there. How can you talk of love so soon? that might be what's causing her to hold back. just keep your perspective and your feelings under a bit of control or you'll scare her off.
2006-06-27 08:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her,explain that you're not to sure what you've done wrong,but are really sorry for doing it, and if she can tell you what it is, you'll know not to do it again. I'm sure she'll forgive, you're a good guy :) good luck.
2006-06-27 21:13:43 · answer #11 · answered by cc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋