The guy I've been dating for almost two months told me he stopped seeing other women once we started. I know it's true cause we're always together. Why, then, is he showing up as active on Personals???????????? Jerk.
2006-06-27 08:32:32 · 11 answers · asked by cocoanutt 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I ask him and trust him or dump him?
2006-06-27 08:35:45 · update #1
thanks for your opinion, Slick. Seriously. A bit rude, OK very rude, but at least it's honest. Anyone else think it's OK?
2006-06-27 08:37:47 · update #2
Ego mostly. It is nice to know that people like you.It doesn't mean anything by itself.you stated that you are together all the time.Ask yourself this question is it more about you being uncertain or insecure or him?? Why were you looking in the first place? Did someone mention it to you? What are their motives? I have a free membership in several sites. I enjoy looking.have you asked him about it? Communication rocks!!! Build the relationship that you want,don't just wish for it. Peace.
2006-06-27 08:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by wildrover 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem with the man who is now my husband! We no longer have a computer! We fought about it quite a bit and this is what I learned. He wasn't on there to meet other women, he was bored. I worked three hours later than he did and he didn't know what to do with himself. As I look back on it, I should have dumped his butt, but alas, I married him instead. So I get on there sometime and don't tell him. I know it's immature and I never talk to anyone, but it makes me feel better. He has so many other good qualities that I chose to overlook it. Plus now he's stuck with me forever and I terrorize him on a regular basis and don't feel guilty about it. Talk to your guy, find out his deal, and if it doesn't stop, GET RID OF HIM!!!!!!
2006-06-27 08:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by ice_queen2427 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Habit and curiousity. I do it still. And I'm engaged to a guy with a little girl. I'm not there to meet anyone but just to look and see. If you feel uncofortable, depending on the relationship you two have together just bring up the topic, and talk about it. My fiance knows I still do it, and just sometimes looks over to see what im doing, I have nothing to hide, and we can talk about it. If your guy gets toooooo defensive then there is an alternative reason.
Good luck!
2006-06-27 08:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by keep your head up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow two months and he hasnt asked you to get married yet? It's as if his life and happiness are somehow more important than you and your petty jealousy... Man that's weird! Good thing you found out early, I'm sure the next guy you snoop on will be much better...
2006-06-27 08:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months isn't really a long time.......I wouldn't worry about it...It takes most men longer to commitment than 2 months. Now in 2 years if this is still a problem............I would be worried
2006-06-27 08:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's keeping his options open. i think you got the jerk part right but its a whole lot better to find out now rather than 3 years from now.
2006-06-27 08:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look its only been two months my wife does crap like that and we have been together for 2 years........ and how do you know hes on the personal lists???????????? see your on there too some people need that type of reassuance let him have his fun just let him know that you two are committed and mke sur its just for fun most men are that way they need the satifaction that somone wants them cuz in reallity men need women women dont need men.
2006-06-27 08:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by baby Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him and see what his response is. The question really is how much does he check it?
2006-06-27 10:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Big Timer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there is always something better out there.
2006-06-27 08:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he stil feels like he is missing something!
2006-06-27 08:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sabrina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋