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When I was with him I court him talking to other girls a lot of times, but it seem like everytime I try to stop calling him or try not talk to him it dont work.When we broke up he told me he better not see me pregnant by another man or he is going to hurt me.Im 7 month pregnant and I dont know what to do everytime I see him I try to hide my stomach.I really still do love him, and I do want to see him.But if he see my stomach I know what he is going to do to me.And if my new boyfriend find out I went to go see him he is going to hurt me I dont know what to do.Should I go see him?or not??

2006-06-27 08:27:00 · 9 answers · asked by PIE 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

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Are you serious?! You're 7 months pregnant and you're afraid about seeing your ex because he's going to hurt you. Uh, hello?! DON'T TALK TO HIM ANYMORE. And your boyfriend sounds like a winner too. He'll hurt you if he's sees you with your ex, even though you're 7 months pregnant? Get away from the BOTH of them.

Oh, and also? FILE A RESTRAINING ORDER. Or CALL THE COPS.

2006-06-27 08:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

No, of course you shouldn't go see him. Since posting this question has anyone told you that you should, if so, don't take that advise at all. Look I know it's probably hard for you to make this decision because you love him, but there is even a stronger bond, that of a child and a mother. If you know he would hurt you if he saw you pregnant why would you go see him? If you were to go see him your making a fully aware decision to put your child in an unsafe and volatile environment, he would not only be hurting you but jeopardizing your unborn child's health as well. You should concentrate on being a good mother instead, that may require you to get away from both men if they hurt you.

2006-06-27 15:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Aunt TeTe 1 · 0 0

I think you're dating the wrong kind of men....any man that threatens to hurt you isn't a good one!
Stop talking/seeing your ex boyfriend. Find out why you think you still love him....I don't know how you could when he threatens to kill your unborn child and reconsider this new boyfriend...he seems like the jealous type and that isn't a good thing either!

2006-06-27 15:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Seerah327 3 · 0 0

first o all your ex is an ex for a reason and has no right to keep you from getting pregnant by any other person you choose. As for going to see him again honestly knowing how he is are you nuts!
Personally even if it meant having to stay at a shelter or going on welfare get away from both of them, sounds like they would make a good couple, a couple of woman beating butt heads from the sounds of it.

2006-06-27 15:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hello this is very serious who do u really luv your x friend or your baby soon to b father come on get a grip n make up your mind especially in d conditon u r in i think that your x friend has too much on u n sounds too determine dominaring n scarey if u had feelings so deep 4 him u should never get into a new relationship until u got over ur x friend

2006-06-27 17:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Are you serious? You need to find out what you're worth and set a little bit higher standards for yourself. Why are you more concerned about this boy than you is this child. I don't get it. I know love is blind, but you are not, you just need to open your eyes to the light and be a positive role model for your child.

2006-06-27 15:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by IntheMiddle 1 · 0 0

your're a ******* dumbass to be even asking this question!!!!!.....just know that if you go to see your ex YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE for any harm done to your unborn child..you must REALLY HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM OR YOUR MENTALLY RETARDED .......how could you even CONTEMPLATE seeing your ex when he threatned to hurt you and child?.....wtf?!!!!!.....u need to leave BOTH OF THOSE CRAZY *** MEN ALONE....

but of course your're the stupid type of female so of course you will give in and go see the ex...well...before you see him say a farewell to your unborn because he probably meant what he said about hurting you.....

and if you or anybody else think im being HARSH..GOOD..because somebody needs to give this stupid girl a wake up call!!!......i swear some women just SHOULD NOT be able to procreate.

2006-06-27 17:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by outspokenone 3 · 0 0

Leave them both alone, if you are scared, and they hurt you why would you want you're kids around that.

2006-06-28 18:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by chutkey73 2 · 0 0

what do you think???

2006-06-27 15:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0 0

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