ok..so ifianlly kicked my ex to the curb about 3 months ago. we had been on and off for 2 years and i really loved.we have been through hell.. 2 miscarraiges, him cheatin on me, me being in jail.. well. we finally broke up for good cuz we needed space and he needed to grow up get a job and learn how to support himself. all of a sudden he wgets things going. i find out he isnt doing it he is screwing some ***** who is buying him everything. he says it is none of buisness but he calls me and tells me h eloves me. S i find out tell him i am really through and we havent talked in 6 weeks. he just texed me and want to know why i havent called him. i amjust now not crying to sleep anymore.. do i tell him to go away or do itry to be nice?
2006-06-27 08:22:03 · 9 answers · asked by bubblyblonde002200 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with yourself:
Is this man good for me?
Have i not given him 2 years to show me love?
Now that i have moved on, do I want to go back to they way things were?
What does he want from me truly?
Will I be supposting him again?
You know the answers to these questions, the thing to ask yourself finally is will I be happy with myself?
2006-06-27 09:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go away, Girl what is the point once you throw garbage out do you go and bring it back into the house?? NO it stays outside until the garbage truck comes and get it. Thats exactly what happen why do you care if he isn't doing what he got to do and some girl was stupid enough to support his Broke A$$. Let him like I tell alot of people you can do bad by your dame self. You don't need dead weight.
MAN if I were you I would say Fu*k that dude he can go were the sun don't shine and I wouldn't even respond to his text and if I did it would be something rude like: What happen she don't want to by you nothing else or she told you to get a job.
YOUR REASONS FOR LEAVING:
we have been through hell.. 2 miscarraiges, him cheatin on me, me being in jail.. well. we finally broke up for good cuz we needed space and he needed to grow up get a job and learn how to support himself.
2006-06-27 15:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been nice too long. You have finally gotten rid of him. Being nice will just let him worm his way back in when the new chick is fed up of catering to this parasite. Count your blessings and enjoy your freedom!!!
He will never grow up, he will just keep moving on to the next naive or vulnerable female.
2006-06-27 15:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to "F" Off! Also tell him that you've got a new guy who's bigger and better than him, if you know what I mean, and if you really want to torque him, tell him the guy is of the opposite race of your ex. This really seems to drive some guys ape-sh!t crazy.
2006-06-27 15:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even reply. Once you have made it clear that your done with him you have no reason to say it again. You don't owe him anything...remember that. And also remember that you deserve WAY more than he is ever going to give you.
2006-06-27 15:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by fickle_green 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like trouble if you ask me....keep his A#$ at the curb and go on w/ your life
2006-06-27 15:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont want 2 be with him if u really dont
2006-06-27 15:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by Disco Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about nice and calmly tell him .........go away. that yr over him now and moving on and up.
2006-06-27 15:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go away
2006-06-27 15:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋