The guy has a girlfriend, but he's willing to break up with her for me.
2006-06-27 08:13:58 · 29 answers · asked by jscont090 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your like 12 just dump the loser and date the guy you like. you should be worried about school and not who is cuter. have fun working at dd the rest of your life because you choose to date guys then learn.
2006-06-27 08:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by cjone782000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriends and boyfriends, the key word here is friends. In my opinion, there is way too much emphasis on this relationship.
I mean, if you have been together for years and are engaged or at least planning on getting married, then maybe it can be called cheating. Otherwise, it is a "friend" relationship. I am not saying to be a "sl*t", but if there is someone that has been of interest to you and you have a chance to see if it is "all that"--go for it. If you don't you will always wonder "what if" and blame yourself or your BF/GF.
Experience is a way to learn. You never know if those hot shoes fit right, until you try them on and take a walk.
Good luck!
2006-06-27 08:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ryno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy that you like in private and well if he's really willing to break up with his girlfriend. Break up with your boyfriend.... but what I'm trying to say is follow your heart and ask yourself. What should you do?
2006-06-27 08:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by princechubby96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him wanting to break up with his girlfriend to be with you should be the exact reason why you DONT like him anymore. That's shady!!! And if he would do it to her, why wouldn't he do it to you.
His actions speak volumes about his character.
On the other hand, live a little, enjoy your life and do whatever makes you happy, that's her problem right? Just know that you, her and him could all get hurt in the process. Don't take peoples feelings lightly, how would you feel if you were her?
2006-06-27 08:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by nanasauntie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would stop thinking the grass is greener on the other side of the fence...if he says he would break up with his current girlfriend for you he will do the same to you eventually....and then again, what about your boyfriend...do you have no feelings for this chap at all??....never break up with one person for another...if a relationship is to fail then let it fail because it is not working. A rebound relationship is bound to fail as well.....you need to think in a more mature fashion......
2006-06-27 08:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend. Let him dump his girlfriend. All is fair in war and love, and life is too short to be someone you don't want to be with. Eventually, you have to make a decision, of course, but if you've liked the guy for a long time he's probably a good fit.
2006-06-27 08:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by eliasulmonte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is exactly like me and my boyfriend now... We constantly talked on the phone and saw each other all of the time... but like most relationships do me and my ex broke up and now i am with the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me... i am so happy... besides if you are having feelings for another person while you are in a relationship its not really fair to the person that you are with now anyways... it goes to prove that your feelings are not as strong as they used to be... So save the heartache and break up with him now... because you will happier in the long run....
2006-06-27 08:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by emidanluvsu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are willing to break up with your boyfriend and he is willing to break up with his girlfriend for you i don't see a problem.
2006-06-27 08:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by Brown skin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel u will be happy with him more than ur present boyfreind just go for it but at the same time i would suggest u to think about the one who is at present in ur life .does he really cares for u ,loves u and do u have a same feeling for him as u have for this guy if yes than please dont break his heart
2006-06-27 08:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by golu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy you have to breakup with your bf! It would be unfair to your bf to be with him yet have feelings for someone else. And if you dont break up with him, being that you like this other guy so much you might end up cheating on your bf with this guy. So, my advice breakup with your bf, and be with this boy that youve been crushing on.
2006-06-27 08:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋