do you think a person can get over that and build something deeper?
2006-06-27 08:10:32 · 35 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't worry about. When I talked to him the other day he was asking me the same thing about you. Ugly deserves ugly so you you two will be perfect together.
2006-06-27 08:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The fact that you chose to label him as your boyfriend you obviously already have .
Being very good looking doesn't mean happiness and a loving
relationship.
You can get over that and yes build something deeper because a relationship is built on more than just whether the person is
good looking.
Now if it is going to be a problem for you accepting your boyfriend unconditionally then obviously he isn't truly the one for you just by your concerns of his looks alone.
2006-06-27 08:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So? At least you've got a boyfriend!
Hell yes you can "build something deeper" with him - but not until you get over that attittude of "getting over it" - hey, don't do the dude any favors! Be with him because you love the person he is or let him go & find someone who better fits your physical ideal.
2006-06-27 08:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your avatar isn't very good looking either..lol...
but seriously if you cant get over his ugliness then you will never build something deeper because it will always be in the back of your head and you can really get intimate with him...also your eyes will be wandering
2006-06-27 08:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it kinda matters that he has to look good but it really shouldnt matter at all. if you like him and want to get to know him more, you should go for it. inner beauty is more important than the physical appearance. if you get a really good looking guy, he might turn out to be a prick and just worry about his image rather than what needs to be done. a person can get over that if they get to know the person and see what they like. it builds over time and soon enough, his looks wont even matter to you cause he'll be treating you right. good luck....
2006-06-27 08:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by ~jervi mervi~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your "boyfriend" so apparently you did at some point, or are you with him just to be dating someone? I've dated several guys who were not good looking in the face, but the 'spark' was there and I was VERY attracted to them regardless. Either you dig him or you don't (looks aside). If you do, then move forward together, if you don't, then stop wasting your time and his.
2006-06-27 08:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over not being good looking. I'm sorry, but if you don't find him attractive you shouldn't be with him. You should atleast find the guy attractive. Obviously, the inside is what matters, but if you can't start out with a good base it is not going to work out.
2006-06-27 08:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are extremely superficial, people usually get more attractive the better you get to know them.
I remember back in school my friend was crushing on this one guy and I would be like "eww! he's ugly" but then when I got to know him I crushed on him too! It's all about the personality.
2006-06-27 08:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look like your avatar then you're ugly too. The relationship can definetly grow into somehting deeper.
2006-06-27 08:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by frankramirez_81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look is not the best asset for a guy:)
And you don't have to worry that every girl wants to get him.
So dig deeper.
2006-06-27 08:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by chigirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships shouldn't be allllll about looks.
Looks are what attracts you to them to begin with.
Why are you with him now?
Obviously you guys have something in common and he makes you feel special.
If you keep thinking about how not good looking your boyfriend is, then you may loose the connection that you have.
2006-06-27 08:14:52 · answer #11 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋