My boyfriend and I have been going out since June 10th. He calls every other day. When he says he will call me back he never dose until the next day or the day after. He acts as if he dosent want to see me. I feel like he dosent like me anymore or what. Can you help me or tell me what tha heck is going on.
(P.S.) On our first date he bought me a shirt from hollister, second we kissed, now he seems as if he has no intrest in me at all. wtf.
2006-06-27 07:45:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him and ask him what does he want? what is bothering him if he says that he don't want you anymore just move on..
2006-06-27 07:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Terry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*~*Guys*~*
1. She makes eye contact and smiles at you.
2. She hits you softly on the arm and laughs when you say something funny.
3. She flips her hair when she's talking to you.
4. She touches your arm when she talks to you.
5. She says, "No, I'm not telling you who I like!" with a big smile on her face
6. She asks you who you like or who you would go out with seemingly interested.
7. When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends and she is almost always next to you.
8. She criticizes you on a girl you like.
9. You catch her staring at you.
10. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up on you.
11. Her
friends outside of school and in school know about you, and says she talks about you a lot.
12. She knows your phone number and address.
13. She will try and talk, and spend time with you as much as possible
*~*Girls*~*
1. He stares at you a lot.
2. He hits you a lot. (just play hitting )
3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a conversation with you
4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she
picked you up from school.
5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride" with you cuz you
couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.
6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in the process
7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk.
8. You hung up on him. He called you back.
9. You where invited by him to a group outing.
10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.
11. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do snort sometimes. Which makes you
laugh even harder.
12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.
14. He every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, ***, thighs, ect.)
2006-06-27 07:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by mielarmstrong45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be his age, inexperience, and maybe he's following advice about not calling to often or show he likes you too much. after all you really haven't known each other all that long. And you can always ask him face to face. Don't ask over the phone ! if he's a good honest guy he'll give you a strait answer. But relax i don't think its as bad as your thinking. Good Luck
2006-06-27 07:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by greysonata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just needs more space, in a way, guys are like girls, they dont like being overcrowded, give him a few days to chill and never be clingy or prying when you are around him, as for the whole "He never calls when i ask him too" thing, hes a guy, give him a break (guys are "special") Good Luck
2006-06-27 07:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Scooby Doo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're being clingy - if you've only been seeing each other for two weeks, he's not really your "boyfriend" anyway. Let him have some space and cultivate some interests of your own! You shouldn't be centering your life around some guy, anyway.
2006-06-27 07:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by mybrilcareer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I went through this as well. The only true way to find out is to talk to him. I solved this by breaking up, but I realized that was a mistake.
2006-06-27 07:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by aLyxoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first he could be busy with something and just cant find the time to talk to you even thought he does want to i think you should tell him how you feel and if things don't change break up
2006-06-27 07:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by Brown skin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are pig headed. He wants u to pursue him. Just leave him alone, and dont make yourself so availble. dont answer some of his phone calls and some when u DO answer tell him ur about to go out with some friends. he'll pursue ya :)
2006-06-27 07:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by ♪♫jessy♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend,
I know guys like that and I can tell you right now to forget this one. He doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated, and he won't change. There are plenty of fish in the sea!
2006-06-27 07:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard truth is he probably don't. Men only want what they can't have they like to chase and hunt. Be the chasee and the hunted, show NO interest in him if he likes you he will come back. Don't make it easy for him.
2006-06-27 07:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by Idyllynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyday calling yeh this happens at the begining so dont think hes not interested now that its every other day. he does still have other friends and issues in his own life to deal with. if hes still calling you he is still interested
2006-06-27 07:49:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋