The first boy i ever fell in love with called me a few days ago. and said he is having trouble in his marrige and he has a baby. So he turned to me because im the only one who knows him so well. (he's a real personal private kind of guy) My bf knows that he called and freaked out and told me to never talk to him ever and i said ok. But now my ex wants to go see a movie just to get out of the house so he wont have to think about his problems. Should i just go see an innocent movie and tell my bf im with some of my girl friends? or should i just tell me ex no kus i might get caught?
keep in mind i still have feelings for my ex and still love him
2006-06-27 07:16:30 · 13 answers · asked by xbinary_dreamsx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex is getting a divorce!!
2006-06-27 07:22:30 · update #1
Who the hell do you think your kidding? Your ex is married and you are in a relationship. You now want to lie to your boyfriend and meet this dude that you still have feelings for so he can run from his wifey problems while you 2 innocently watch a movie. Honey you will be out of your panties sooo fast. But if you dont care to destroy your relationship, his marriage, morals and righteousness of honesty...by all means go ahead and set the stage to being drama to everyone involved.
2006-06-27 07:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend, don't go. Respect him and his feelings for you.
What good could possibly come of this "date" with your ex?
It will only complicate all situations. You broke up with the ex for a reason, and you stayed broken up with him for a reason.
You chose your current b/f for a reason, too. You've chosen to stay with him for a reason.
Why start trouble? Your ex is rebounding and sees you as an easy target because you still have feelings for him and will talk to him. He's playing you. He won't leave his wife and baby for you, and if he did, the same problems that broke you up the first time will come back and do it again.
Just avoid the ex completely and work on making things better with the man who loves you now. Build the trust between you instead of sneaking out and breaking that trust.
Move ahead, not backwards.
2006-06-27 14:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you have feelings for your ex?? He's got a wife and a child and you've got a boyfriend. Do you honestly think he'd leave his family for you? Do you honestly think he can relate to you better than he can his wife? If so, why didn't he marry you? IF his marriage was in ruin and he was any kind of a man at all, he would be doing everything he could to work it out- not calling ex girlfriends and asking them out. Are you willing to risk everything you have for some sleazeball ex?? If he's that great, why did you break up to begin with?? Do you want to be labeled a homewrecker when the **** hits the fan??? Do you want everyone calling you a whore?? That's what you're setting yourself up for. Think about his wife and his baby- would YOU want to have to face THEM? If you have no respect for your boyfriend or for your ex's wife-- have some respect for the child- That's their daddy you're about to get involved with- and if daddy isn't going to think about them SOMEBODY should. Next time your ex calls, suggest he go discuss his problems with the one he married-- you closed up shop a long time ago.
2006-06-27 14:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont do it. Ur boyfriend now is already mad about it. If you really love ur boyfriend u wouldnt go. Because you say the guy is married and having problems he might just want to hook up to get his mind off things. And if you do that he might fall back inlove with him and then you would end up being hurt cause the guy would get back with his wife and your boyfriend would dump you. But if your up for all of that then go for it.
2006-06-27 14:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decline the offer of the movie!
you still love him and he just needs a shoulder to cry on. what happens if you get 'involved' again? you new relationship will be finished, and what if he patches things up with his wife? your on your own with a broken heart.
please think ahead of this situation. a lot of people can get hurt, including you. forget he ever called and let him lean on someone else.
2006-06-27 14:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't go to the movie only because you do still have feelings for him...if you didn't then i would say yes but if you decide to go...don't hide it from your boyfriend..he can't control you and if he tries to you should tell someone because in situations like that you can get seriously hurt good luck with whatever choice you make..
2006-06-27 14:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend said no. Don't go. You belong to him now, not your ex. What your boyfriend says goes - especially when dealing with situations involving other men. You don't want your boyfriend to leave you.
2006-06-27 14:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know what the h@ll that chick "Kupcake" talking bout, sound like her man be whippin that a$$, but i do agree with "Jennifer F"
2006-06-27 14:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by scarletcutiecajunqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it...if you want to have 2 ex's.
2006-06-27 14:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by laskid2k2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope he doesnt be in the same movie theater
2006-06-27 14:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋