I was reading a qustion and some of the answers and got thinking of myself. I'm 17 and all my boyfriends have been older is that bad? I dated a guy for a year that was two years older than me. and then I dated one this year that was 23 and it turned out he was the immature one. Then I started dating another one that was twenty and now a 23 year old. I don't feel to young. I'm not doing it for the wrong reasons I'm just having fun and living life. But they seem to be fine with it and I don't care. And it seems when I always meet them and we talk and my age come up they are like no way...you look that young but I thought you were way older I just say no i'm only 17. I don't know if i'm in the wrong. What does everyone think?
2006-06-27 07:08:16 · 11 answers · asked by kaycee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in oklahoma a 17 yr old is not up for statutory rape it is 16 and under. they can't get in trouble
2006-06-27 07:17:44 · update #1
you shouldn't worry. so your boyfriends are 20 and 23, so what? your 17. It's okay.At least they're only a little older that you. If you like older guys than date older guys. Just not guys that are over the age of 27, not yet. Live life to the fullest. Enjoy it.
Yours truly,
pinkockstylish
2006-06-27 07:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by pinkrockstylish 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
first of all, you're 17 and every guy you dated were over 18...can you say statutory rape? Honestly I don't think age is a big issue when it comes to dating or marriage, the people you are dating or dated are considered, by law, adults while you are not. Maybe you should wait until society sees you as an adult to be with an adult. Because if the two of you cross the line, it'll be him going to jail not you.
2006-06-27 14:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by yogurtsoju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not too young, maybe the guys are just too old. I say continue to have fun but be careful who you date. And make sure you know them, even though your 17 and you think you know a lot, there are some very sick people out there who would not hesitate to take advantage.
2006-06-28 23:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by ou freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... Personally I think that guys mature a lot slower then girls do. I think as long as you are ok with the way the relationship is going then its your prerogative. Just remember guys in their 20's are also looking to have fun and enjoy life and their answer to fun is sex. So if your looking for a relationship keep that in mind. And one more thing you are only being taken advantage of if what you do is not to your advantage... so if your in it for the sex too all is good.
2006-06-27 14:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by garciaannery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what what others say and think live your life the way you want and young guys are not as fun as older men.I like older men myself and I am 26 .I date men that are 35-40 years old.So make yourself happy and **** what everyone says.
2006-06-27 14:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by starrblazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r too young but if i were u wait until u get out of highskool to date tht much older men. i mean my parents r 10 yrs apart but they started dating when my mom was 25
2006-06-27 14:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by marissamutilated™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask you are too young, you're 17, if i could go back to your age i would change alot including not dating older guys
2006-06-27 14:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by jada_24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I was 17 I dated older guys too. I don't thik there is anything wrong with it.
2006-06-27 14:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think age is nothing but a number when i first my my boyfriend i was 15 turning 16 and he was 21 but im more muture i grew up to fast and me and him are still together and im 19 but i think its not to young
2006-06-27 15:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by nativeangel_love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r under 18 or 21 yes,too young.guys do not want to get in any trouble
2006-06-27 14:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋