i ve a gf who i am dating for 2 years now n just 2 weeks ago she told me she is lesbian but wants to contunin our relationship but won't quit been lesbian and i love this girl very much what should i do
2006-06-27 07:07:16 · 16 answers · asked by sansin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so accept her as she is.
2006-06-27 07:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard of a 3some? If she wants you and her girlfriend she is bisexual not a lesbian. Lesbians only date women. But that's not the point. Okay if you love her and this doesnt bother you then go with it. But if you want a relationship with just the 2 of you then it probably wont happen and you should move on. Have you heard the Jay-Z line "Why are you actin like there arent other fish in the fish bowl?"
2006-06-27 07:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by sxybggr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should enjoy the fact that she's that way. I think it's probably bi not lesbian. Keep loving her and see what she wants for you guys. You loved her b4 u found out and shes still that lady so love her now.
2006-06-27 07:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im more than sure this is not what you expected from her so end on a good note and sdo the whole friends bid but find someone that is interested in the opposite sex it will work out better!
2006-06-27 07:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's bisexual, not a lesbian. If you are ok with getting cheated on then stay in the relationship. If not then get out of it.
2006-06-30 03:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said "lesbian," that means she prefers girls. Dump her and save yourself the pain. She's basically saying you're not for her, but wants to string you along for (money, shelter, someone to hang out with, a real penis)? If she's bisexual and you can deal with her sleeping around, then perhaps you can stay with her. But it ain't looking good.
2006-06-27 07:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she love you? Does it bother you that she is lesbian? It it bothers you, break up with her. If she loves you and still wants to be intimate with you, then she's not a lesbian, she's bi.
Does she want to be with girls while she is still with you? If so, break up with her.
If you're OK with it, keep on seeing her.
2006-06-28 14:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by WEIRDRELATIVES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she isn't a lesbo she is bi and sounds like you could be enjoying yourself with this.....most guys would love to in this situation.........just maybe set ground rules for the fun because if she is getting fun on the side should you get some also?
2006-06-27 07:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by McRach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her know you feel uncomfortable with it, and if she really loves you she will quit being a lesbo. Talk it over with her. If she doesn't stop being a lesbo then dump her and move on.
2006-06-27 08:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starty having threesomes with her and her lover.It's quite fun.
2006-06-27 07:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by starrblazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if she has a girlfriend on the side and have a threesome
2006-06-27 07:11:18 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋