Its not as bad as it sounds, my co-worker recently got married. I'm starting to like her ex boyfriend. I secretly asked her if she still likes her ex and of course she says NO. Anyways I want to hook up with him but i dont want to hurt my co-workers feelings, and remember my co-worker is married! Is this okay???
2006-06-27 06:59:14 · 12 answers · asked by misschrnc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From a humanistic point of view, it's OK because no-one has the right to "own" another person.
Morally it's OK because as you mentioned, your co-worker has married someone else.
If you are planning to stay at your present job, and if you value the relationship you have with your co-worker, then tread carefully. It's not so much about hurting her feelings as it would be making her feel vulnerable, and no-one likes to feel vulnerable at work. Unless she is an exceptionally confident & easy going person, it will change your relationship with her. You've just got to decide if it's worth that much to you.
2006-06-27 07:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to the co-worker and let her know how you feel about it and see what she says. She should not have a problem with it as she is now married to some one else and is happy. It did not work out with her ex so I think once tell her that you like him and you are goign t o see him I dont see a problem with that as I would not have a problem if that was me(your oc-worker) Good Luck
2006-06-27 14:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's married and has no right whatsoever to express an opinion on the subject. Go for it today!
2006-06-27 14:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is married, then go for it! It's not like she can date him!!
2006-06-27 14:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is married, in this case, it is perfectly fine. Really.
2006-06-27 15:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't risk it. There's plenty of other guys out there.
2006-06-27 14:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and yes but follow ur heart but think long and hard about it
2006-06-27 14:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by koumba s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-06-27 14:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez this isn't hard....go for it. If she's married she shouldn't care.
2006-06-27 14:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are now clear to take off. go for it baby girl.
2006-06-27 14:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋