Half her paycheck not accounted 4,numbers on cell last couple weeks,returned e-mails in her in box,treats me like shi-t, gets a real crappy attitude toward me when i ask about any of it,been together about 7years,I don't drink,do drugs,or yell at her, she gets treated like a queen, is she cheating, if so need ideas to find out,please help
2006-06-27 06:58:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, and even if she's not you should get out. It will be hard at first, but there is no point in holding on to something just because ya'll have been together for so long. Sometimes you should just know when to call it quits.
2006-06-27 07:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tori B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't necessarily mean that she's cheating, but she seems to be a real b****. If she was this way before then I feel sorry for you. Check her phone out and call the numbers from a private number or payphone and just listen, don't say anything. If it's a guy then you'll pretty much know. Check her e-mails do something, but don't get caught 'cause then it could turn out really bad.
2006-06-27 14:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you treat her like a queen but would she say that ? Sounds to me like she is pissed off at you over something. Maybe instead of questioning her on the calls and e-mails, why not ask her whats bothering her ? To catch her cheating you would have to investigate. Call the numbers to see who answers, read the e-mails, follow her one day. That is really the only way to know for sure.
2006-06-27 14:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this woman your legal wife or legal common law? If she isn't, than you have no basis for your complaint. She like you are free agents. Although you stated you have been together for 7 years, is that under the same roof or just dating? If you have been under the same roof, then there is common law established. You and she can part, but there is court decided distribution of mutual property. You cannot hold her back and you have no claim to any money she has earned, only mutually owned property irregardless of who purchased it.
She may want to move on, and you have no legal way to stop her. You may not like what is happening but it is a fact of life.
2006-06-27 14:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is unhappy in this relationship and it could be that she is cheating because one who cheats will have a bad attitude towards the other person. If you are serious and want to continue the relationship, you need to talk to her. It may be something else. So dont asume because that will really hurt your relationship. I hope you work it out.
2006-06-27 14:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a wuss. Ask her straight out if she is cheating. If the First words out of her mouth are anything other than " No, I am not." then she is cheating on you or has. If she is not cheating on you then you still need to be a man and tell her the attitude and the shady behavior stops now. she has been waiting for you to man up and take control. do it.
2006-06-27 14:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by jim w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya know what...crappy attitude, treating you badly...i wouldnt even care about finding out. i would leave and find a woman who would appreciate you. there is no way to tell if shes cheating, but if youre gonna stick around, i would just keep a watchful eye on the situation. but they say once trust is gone...what do ya got? your decision buddy---love sucks
2006-06-27 14:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but she is up to something. Whether is be cheating or just getting ready to leave you. The only way to know for sure is to ask her and hope she tells you the truth. Good luck.
2006-06-27 14:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by SingleHotMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, she's planning to drop the bomb. Get ready for a divorce. You are about to end up in financial ruin unless you act fast. And I would almost bet there is another man involved as well. Nice guys finish last....sorry dude.
2006-06-27 14:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is or maybe she is looking for someone else. You need to tell her that if she can't talk to you or give you a straight answer then its time to let her go and move on. You deserve better and not to be treated like ****!
2006-06-27 14:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Love_is_there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋