I've been told by many that all I have to do to attract a woman is to "just be myself". So, what if "just being myself" isn't good enough? What do I do then?
2006-06-27 06:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, guy, I'm a goof ball and have a beautiful girlfriend. There's someone out there for everybody. The problem with pretending is that if someone falls for you when you're pretending, they'll soon find you really weren't who you pretended to be.
Also, be assertive. You have something to offer, and you should show it. Soon enough, someone will see what you have and decide they want it.
2006-06-27 06:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by J M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont put on a 'front' to try to attract anyone. If you do that and you end up staying with that person they will only know the person that you're pretending to be. Once you get too comfortable and they see the real you they might freak out or break up with you. Just be yourself and you'll find someone that will love you for you.
2006-06-27 13:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by lovintheblacknsilver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying, "treat other people like you would want them to treat you." Start praising others. A good butt-kisser is a very honest person, because the praise is come from the bottom of his or her heart.
Only generous people can see the beauties or strength in other people, and then give people praise. Selfish or self-center people will not be able to do this, even if they give people praise, it would be an insincere praise. So be generous, start looking at the beauties and strength that people have, be nice and praise them about it.
2006-06-27 15:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being yourself isn't good enough for someone, then why would you even want to date them? Why would you bother being in a relationship with someone you couldn't be yourself around?
2006-06-27 13:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is good enough.. Or you are just setting your sights on the ones that are already taken or are not worth the time of day in the first place.
2006-06-27 13:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being yourself is always good enough. If people don't want you for who you are, then seriously, they're not worth having. Be yourself, and the right one will come to you - eventually.
2006-06-27 13:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by amyeighteenlancaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find ways to make a better you... start a new hobby, take advice from those close to you, and work on being a better person. good luck.
2006-06-27 13:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything. girls will be missing out on something unique. stay true to yourself by being yourself because in the long run it'll be all worthwhile..
2006-06-27 13:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by ri_dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never compromise who you are and always be yourself. There is someone and someones out there waiting and looking for someone just like you...
2006-06-27 13:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so uptight. If this girl doesn't like you for yourself then find someone else who will appreciate you.
2006-06-27 13:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋