My ex and I were contacting each other. Finally I sent him an email telling him what I wanted from him and what my feelings were (that I want him back). He never responded so I sent a text saying thanks for resp to my email, you are so considerate! He resp right away apologizing saying he hasnt been online in while. Yet, he never responded to my email. Why would he do that to me? Why wouldn't he respond to my email????? I havent heard from him since and Im really hurt.
2006-06-27 06:51:53 · 14 answers · asked by jensmith24040 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what it feels like if someone unexpectedly quits communication or looses interest without apparent reason.
So far you have received good, but average advice, some even insensitive! You didn't ask for sympathy (although some sympathy would probably be welcome now) or to be ripped apart! You didn't ask for advise either, but that usually comes spontaneously from our fellow Yahooers and is mostly welcome. You are trying to figure out WHY he would do this!
And that is a good question. It is always difficult to try and understand the behavior of the opposite sex for both sexes. We tend to take rejection personally and do the most horrific thing as a result by unconsciously rejecting ourselves. That is when the maize of questions begin. "Should I have rather left this unsaid or should I have rather said that differently? Where did I go wrong? Why am I not attractive to him anymore? etc."
But in the process to protect ourselves, we typify the opposite sex and as a result we repel them without realizing to what extend. The signals we send out are more visible to the opposite sex than to ourselves!
And as time goes by this becomes a snowball. And more and more snowballs are born everyday! The more we are rejected, the more we repel the opposite sex, the more we are rejected! We don't give time for healing and reprogramming after breakups because we desire acceptance.
Just remember the following facts:
1.Whenever you are rejected by someone, it is because he was also rejected in the past. Or he experienced a previous breakup as rejection.
2.The more you want his acceptance, the lesser he wants yours, because he has it already!
3.The lesser you want his acceptance, the more he'd want yours, because he translates it as rejection and as a result desires acceptance!
4.The more rejected you feel, the more acceptance you'll desire and the harder you will try to understand his sudden change in behavior.
So, trying to figure out his sudden change in behavior will drive you mad, because nobody in the world knows what his motives are. And then you will become a sad snowball statistic! Instead, get out of the maize and think about this!
Good luck!
Also see the definition of rejection: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rejection_%28emotion%29
2006-06-27 10:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbeam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you want from the guy? Why didnt you handle the issue when he said he hasnt been on line. If you have other ways to reach him then use them. Or let him go sounds like it's not very important to him or he would have gotten back to you. Here's a suggestion quit waiting by your computer and go find a new love interest. He's a ex for some reason. Think about it.
2006-06-27 07:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by sxybggr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he seriously hasn't been online in a while! Give the poor guy a break.
If he was lying and really just didn't respond, can you blame him? You seem impatient and bitter. Who would want to rush into a relationship (again) with someone like that?
Maybe he just doesn't want to get together again and doesn't know how to say it without you going postal and ripping his head off?
2006-06-27 07:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible isn't a guide explaining the note of any god, any more advantageous than the Harry Potter books are a guide for exploring London's "wizarding global". they're both works of fiction; the truly real vast difference is that the former has a tremendous form of folk believing it in spite of lack of evidence of veracity.
2016-10-13 21:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by gettinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask him directly. He may not be ready or may not want the same thing as you. If that is the case then you need to move on. Learn from the mistakes and make better choices neat time. Good luck and keep your head up.
2006-06-27 06:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he just isn't that into you. :-(
Guys are so inconsiderate. They don't think about relationships like we do and are very much concerned with themselves, not anyone else.
Sounds like this guy isn't ready for a relationship. Try to move on. Seems like everytime I moved on, the guy I was vuying for came running back. One even asked me to marry him when he found out I was engaged to another man. (Thank God I married the one I was already engaged to, because we are very happy together.)
Good luck and try to move past it. So sorry!!
2006-06-27 06:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't responded to your e.mail because he told you he hasn't been online in a while when he text you, Maybe you need to rewrite your statement because it doesn't make much sense. Re-read what your entire question was, you should see your mistake.
2006-06-27 06:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh take the hint sweety, he is not interested and the reasons shouldnt matter. Move on.
2006-06-27 06:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have probably put things on the line that he is uncomfortable with dealing with. Move on get a real man. -
2006-06-27 06:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jay c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probly doesn't wanna get back 2gether but hes 2 nice 2 say no
2006-06-27 06:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by CaliBeachBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋