My 13 year old daughter has just told me that she is bisexual. How should I react?
2006-06-27 06:39:10 · 10 answers · asked by Crystal L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She is not sexually active and is not dating yet. She said she is more into guys but that she is attracted to girls. She said she has felt this way for about two years. I asked her if she could see herself dating and being with a girl and she said yes.
2006-06-28 06:13:27 · update #1
React calmly. She's still your daughter and she needs you. Talk with her and keep your cool. Could she be saying this for the shock value? At least she's still wanting to talk to you about her thoughts. Hang in there!!
2006-06-27 07:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by grannyhuh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is only 13. She's still trying to adjust to puberty. I'm sure she's just confused with all her hormones going haywire. It's probably only a phase. I wouldn't worry too much. Has she even started dating?
2006-06-27 14:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is only 13 how does she know if she is bisexual or not?
2006-06-27 13:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by sandiegogal2002@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't over react. Yes it is going to take sometime to adjust but you are going to have to deal with it and try not to treat her different.
2006-06-27 13:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Vannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to reason with her, and see if she knows the full meaning of the term, and how did she reach such conclusion, and whether or not have she got the enough experience to decide being so, just use calm voice in loving atmosphere.
2006-06-27 13:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Nader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt it moght be a fase even if it aint i think u should support her yelling will only cuz more harm
have a great day
2006-06-27 13:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by buck_wonderz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god. i have nooo idea. good luck ! that sounds dreadful I think I would have a melt/break down if my daughter told me that...
2006-06-27 13:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whip her a**, and tell her she is a girl. girls date guys. do you want your daughter to go to hell?
2006-06-27 13:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it. You can't change her. Let her be herself. Support her, if you don't, you'll drive her away.
2006-06-27 13:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by roxy81492 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept it and love her the way she is.
2006-06-27 13:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋