I have known this guy for several years..he is a very shy guy, very reserved, yet very nice and friendly...the way he speaks is sexy...he's kind of a dork, a lot of people think he's antisocial...but I still like him because I can see past that..he is 25, I don't think he has even had a girlfriend...(or boyfriend if he's..you know..)..I find his mystery alluring..whenever I see him he smiles at me and talks to me...when we aren't talking to one another at a party he looks at me a lot...and I always catch his gaze...sometimes when we talk he glances "down there"....that turns me on sometimes...once we were talking and he avoided eye contact with me...he was finding things to say...then everyone started leaving the party..both of us were reluctant to get up...we just sat there..I wished we didn't have to leave...I don't know what he was thinking..when we finally had to part I whisered goodbye to him..he just looked at me..and then down there again, sayin nothin
2006-06-27 06:30:54 · 34 answers · asked by Soraya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-27 06:51:30 · update #1
Sounds like he does like you. You might have to make the first move. He's probably unsure too.
2006-06-27 06:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he likes you. Maybe you should go ahead and ask him to see a movie, just like that "Hey you wanna go see a movie with me?" and maybe he'll respond "you mean like a date?" and then you could say something like "only if you want it to be" and that way it gives him the control without really giving him the control. And then depending on what happens from there, is up to you. Try and manipulate it so that he sits really close to you, or holds your hand, or hugs you, you're a girl, you're smart, you can manipulate these things to your advantage. And if all goes well he'll respond. Mind you if he is very shy he may pull away really quick, but don't lose heart, that just may be how he is at first. So don't give up if you're really interested in persuing something. Good luck, hope you find this useful.
2006-06-27 06:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, guys like him need girls like you. You seem to see his personality in a more positive way then people around him. You're guessing he has something special...
Listen, this kind of guys need baby steps. You know...things one at a time. You sure seem to know how to appreciate him.
Anyway, I had this kinda' event too. My present girlfriend. First we were best friends and she didn't have any boyfriends before me, and now we're lovers. It's not a big deal. You do what you think it's best for both of you.
Yes, I think the guy likes you.
2006-06-27 06:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a good guy and a dork (but thats good). I beet he has never had a girlfriend, so he is probably very horny, and very nervous, and thinks your hot. He's to shy to make his move, so don't expect it for a while,----- unless--- If you don't mind making the first move, that will get the ball rolling, ask him to dance and get really close or get really close to his ear and whisper a slow long secret in his ear, while softly touching his cheek with your cheek. or something like that. I think he's totally into you, he probably tells his friends how much he's into you.
2006-06-27 06:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Advise = ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he like you, and you will feel that if a person likes you. He might be a shy type guy. If you are willing to have a relationship with him or if you like him, why not do the first move, you'll not loose anything. if it doesn't work then forget about it, and find another one.
Goodluck girl.
2006-06-27 06:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, he likes you. However, he probably grew up in an environment where he didn't have to interact much with people (no brothers and sisters, or they were much older/younger than him), so he doesn't have any idea how to go to the next level with you. Movies/TV won't help much in coaching him on how to open up to you, and if his father wasn't talkative with him, he won't know how to approach you. You are going to have to invite him to dinner and TALK. A LOT. Get him out of his shell.
2006-06-27 06:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Electro-Fogey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to find out for sure, ask him out. He seems interested in you to some degree so why not go out and get to know him better. Sometimes a girl has to take the initiative and take a chance.
2006-06-27 06:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm maybe he just wants your body, he doesnt show that he's interested in your brain.
Maybe he thinks your mysterious too... There's something sexy about that sometimes...
Build up some courage and say "Hi, i saw you at the party," Guys dig girls who hitt on them. If you wanna do him, then do it. But if your intentions are more than just sex, then let him meet you half way.
2006-06-27 06:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by Abstract Expression 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him somewhere, for a coke, hamburger or a sit in the park. Talk and find out about him...act interesterd in what he thinks and then you will know if he cares or not for you. he will respond in some way positive if he likes you.
2006-06-27 06:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by jtmaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys need you to make the first move becasue he might be thinking the same thing you are, try and plan a lunch date or something one on one so you can get him in private without making him nervous
2006-06-27 06:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by uptownsgurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the guy just want to use u and dump you dont be moved by his actions is the way he is using to get you so be careful. for a guy to see you and all what he looks at is "down there" then dat calls for danger so be very careful girl!
2006-06-27 06:42:59 · answer #11 · answered by lamzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋